Women have it. More so if they have a previous relationship. The question that comes to mind is it the husband's responsibility to deal with the damage from the previous relationship?
Frankly baggage caused by another person, is not my responsibility. A relationship is with the whole individual. But issues of projection and assumptions should be checked at the door or don't bother coming in.
cm - i agree with what's in red.
I do not agree with the one above. It's not JUST women - MEN have baggage too.