Re: Bad Pakistani guy, or just normal?
Well tell your friend to go tell her herself if she feels so angry about it. I personally don’t think that she’ll listen. Why would she? No one ever listens to anyone else about warnings when it comes to relationships and I know you’re hurting but you should draw a line under it and move on. He obviously has. There’s plenty of guys out there who would snap you up and treat you the way you should be treated and I hope this experience doesn’t put you off dating other Muslim men, we’re not all like this.
Two questions you should ask a Muslim before you get serious with him, 1 - ask them if they see a future with you and if they want you to convert and 2 - see if they will still want a future with you even if no one including their parents agrees with the relationship but then again, they might just lie and tell you what you wanna hear and do a 360 when the time comes but that’s life. We learn from experiences.