Never fully die after marriage. How true?
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Define bad habits :p
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Depends wat kind of habbits are 
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If its Lazy-Pana then it will die right after one week of marriage 
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***Logically that should hold true.
I’ve heard sooooooooooooooooo many times rishta karanay wali aunties defending a “Bad habit” with the line “shaadi ke baad settle hojayega” as if thats a miracle cure to the person’s attitude or ways 
and it annoys the hell out of me…Like they say you can’t teach an old dog new tricks so why would you think a grown man of over 30 would suddenly change his age old habits overnight for a woman ?
Its the same for both sexes , you can’t change a person just cuz you marry them off…yes one can learn to compromise and adjust to a situation and it takes time to get to know each others idiosyncrasies but hardcore bad habits like wine or women for example , I doubt go away after a marriage.
This was part of a lecture, the community comes to the lecturer for their relationship problems, so the lecturer was mentioning how most of the problems stem from the bad habits before the marriage. The most extreme examples he shared were about haram relationships and their effects after marriage. If the husband was into haram relationship before he got married, there is a high chance that he will go out and take care of his pleasures (prostitution).
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true - bad habits slowly fade away..... but it is really not fair to expect people to change over night either
Astaghfirulah.. 
And I thought it was about watching tv… eating junk food and so and so
so for this I think if someone is doing something haram then i think its not easy to quit very fast…
true !
I didn’t do any house work before marriage and after that my bartan dhona session started the very next day of my marriage followed by many more things and within few weeks I did all the things in my susraal that I didn’t do the entire life I had spent at my parent’s house.
no wonder people say marriage is an eye opener !
true !
I didn't do any house work before marriage and after that my bartan dhona session started the very next day of my marriage followed by many more things and within few weeks I did all the things in my susraal that I didn't do the entire life I had spent at my parent's house.
no wonder people say marriage is an eye opener !
So you're saying your in-laws turned you into a masi. Nice.
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^ yes … they finished my lazzy pana
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lol, at least you can laugh about it.. I hope you at least knew what you were going to be in for before hand.
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no partyslims ...........u have no clue about me :) I didn't know before hand and I am laughing at it because I try not to carry carry those bitter memories with me and that is the best what I can do for myself :)
now let's stick to the topic :D
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Elements of bad habits always remain in your personality and if you don't check yourself, you could find yourself in big trouble, marriage or no marriage.
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^ we all have bad habits. Getting into trouble depends upon the bad habit and intensity of it.
Never fully die after marriage. How true?
very true...!!
true !
I didn't do any house work before marriage and after that my bartan dhona session started the very next day of my marriage followed by many more things and within few weeks I did all the things in my susraal that I didn't do the entire life I had spent at my parent's house.
no wonder people say marriage is an eye opener !
Your bad luck, it doesn't happen to everyone.
Elements of bad habits always remain in your personality and if you don't check yourself, you could find yourself in big trouble, marriage or no marriage.
by the same token, elements of good habits always remain in the personality as well :)
by the same token, elements of good habits always remain in the personality as well :)
Until your wife changes you. badap dish
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so I may be an anomaly, gave up bunch of things before getting married because begum wanted me to or rather i knew she did not like them, her expectations were not that I would give up right away but that I will start cutting down, but I gave it all up. smoking, clubs, other dodgy activities that shall remain unstated etc.
seen others do it to. question is whether you are doing it for someone else, how much that someone means to you, whether that person had made you see your errors and you want to fix it for yourself regardless or partially its for yourself and partially because someone very dear to you does not like some of your habits/activities.
oh yeah btw, anyone who says smoking cant be quit cold turkey needs a dose of will power.
Until your wife changes you. badap dish
hahaha yes, btw desi definition of bad habits is rather narrowly focused is is essentially against broads bars and beers.
what about bad habits after marriage where guys stop taking care of their appearance and instantly get a little toond as a pet, or become boring uncles discussing politics at the drop of a hat at any event..putting away those stylish jeans and getting loose fitting kurta shalwars because then as they gain weight, it all still fits..etc
those are bad habits too