Bad boys and high maintenance women

Why do women like bad boys? What’s their charm, aren’t these guys more trouble than they’re worth and heartache waiting to happen?

Same question for men, why do you like high maintenance women - don’t they make life unnecessarily complicated and aren’t they too demanding?

OR is this just a generalization that has no basis in fact :hmmm:

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generalization, and has no basis in fact.

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all women high maintenance...one way or the other.........

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^all men bad boys ..one way or the other :snooty:

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The key is to find a bad boy, who’s best friends with his Mamma :wink:.

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So you can get it on with his mama? I don’t get it

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Hai na! The man that loves and respects his mama is the man who who will love and respect his wife - always look at how a guy treats his mother.

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I'm scared my wife will be a crap cooker in comparison to my mama.

Edit: What about the guys who are mama's boys and abuse their wives on their mother's orders?

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""""""""""""but he treats my SILs and MIL so nicely.......but always rude to me.......what should i do?""""""""

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Bad boys in usual tend to be on the more popular side, I mean you get to hear of them often regardless if its their good side or the bad but fact is they are often talked about. Personally and only to give you a better drift of things. I’d want to know someone who’s actually bad in life, not because I’d be thrilled about their bad antics, rather only because I find the motivation to pull them off from the dark side they’ve chosen for themselves.

Real men ought to go for the real women though.

Come again?

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I thought the basis for most life1 problems were that the boys would give more attention and love to their mothers/sister and not enough to the wife.

case in point:

nadz and cute ainee?

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The guys I know, the ones who love their Mama and know how to balance relationships, will love their wife. The key is - does he understand that women should be treated with care and respect.

Just imagine being with a guy who DOESN’T love and respect his mom. Yikes, I wouldn’t want to be with someone like that :no:

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Being best friends with your mother is much different than following her orders like a puppy.

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Why do women like bad boys? What's their charm
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Maybe it was when we were watching the Godfather when we were littlee tiny topis, and something in us just clicked so that the only man that ever did it for us were men who blow your face off if you look at them wrong.

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now that could be misconstrued too :hehe:

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Aren’t their mum’s who in actuality aren’t as nice as you expect them to be? I mean, the guys you speak of, haven’t you come across one that simply does not find his mum to be the inspirational sort? And then you ought to judge their son’s solely based on his treatment to the said ‘not so nice mum’? Remotely fair, is it?

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I knew someone would say it :hinna:

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^am I the only one who doesn’t get it :bummer:?

Knowing Nomi, it’s something gunda.

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:smack: sehrysh my future paabi jaan.

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Sure there are exceptions to everything. A guy being nice to his mom doesn't guarantee a great husband and a guy not being nice to mom doesn't mean he'll be a bad husband either. But it is one of many indicators that a girl can look at to learn more about a guy.