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u r giving an example of loving cousin sisters. these r the bridzillas @ war. lol
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sisters are supposed to be loving.
haan thorey bohot ups & downs hootey hain between all sisters /cousin sisters.
but in the end they are the same flesh & blood.
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i think your cousin really looks up to you. i mean honestly if she seems to really copy your sense of style for her WEDDING then that shows how much she appreciates your taste. At the same time I understand how you feel because I KNOW how its like to have someone act like they have their own taste but secretly try to copy you or TRY to be better than you. you should make her understand that individuality is essential in making your wedding day special. just randomly say something like "you're gonna make such a pretty bride! you have different taste so im sure you'll be wearing something very unique unlike other brides!"
If she continues to ask about what you're wearing make something up. sound excited about it so that she believes you. don't get irritated, take this positively! Good luck!
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Pinklove, I wish I was like you...all nice and positive.
But I am not...I do not like being mocked on my special day and anyone who does is GOIN DOWN!
MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
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PS i'm dying to ask u abt chemical peels. i hav looked around but its still very confusing. can u come n answer some of my questions in health forum under the microdermabrassion thread.or else should i open a diff thread for that?":)
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Worry not, I'll just come to Microderm thread.
Carry on folks...what else can we do to throw Jalebi's cousin off her scent?
Worry not, I'll just come to Microderm thread.
Carry on folks...what else can we do to throw Jalebi's cousin off her scent?
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1) Lying to cousin about color/style of clothes
2) Lying to cousin about color/style of clothes.....AND.....providing fake pictures for extra effect
3) Frustrating cousin.......by changing your mind about clothes every other day. "You know how I told you two days ago that I'll be wearing blue.......I'm thinking of doing lime green now. Oooooooh........guess what? I changed my mind again. It's going to be a combination of pink and purple." Muawhahahaha!
4) Condescendingly make her feel clueless about fashion. "Cousin daaaaahling..........the "twin-look" becomes a huge fashion faux-pas past the second grade. Unless you want your outfit to be a means of entertainment for the guests.......I'd show others I'm confident enough to have my own unique style." (catty--I know)
5) Bring cousin's need for competition to her attention. "Cousin.........immitation truly is a form of flattery. Aaaaaaw......you just ALWAYS keep wanting to do whatever i do. Individuality must be difficult for you. Don't tell me your husband looks like mine as well. Or will you name your kids the same as me?"
6) Monkey see....Monkey DO! Give your cousin a taste of her medicine. Copy HER. Copy her body language. Copy what she eats. Copy her laugh. When she goes tot he bathroom.....you do it too. Make it OBVIOUS! If she gets irritated.......tell her, "But I'm only doing what YOU do. You copy my style of clothing. I thought I'd return the favor by copying you. Having fun? I plan to copy your movements for my wedding as well."
7) If you're super evil.........give her horrendous suggestions for clothes. Example: "You know what I would LOVE on my various bridal outfits?......Bows/Ribbons on every square inch of my lehnga. Polka dots for extra flair. Orange lipstick for oomph. Purple contact lens for mystery and seduction. A temporary glitter heart tatoo/sticker on my right cheek for the CUTE FACTOR. And a glittering tiara......so I look like a princess. Oh and the IN-THING now is to add a masculine touch to bridal photographs: posing with a cricket bat or musket.
*************** Don't take the above suggestions seriously. They're just mean in good fun. Be the respectable and dignified person.......and just stick to giving her polite VAGUE answers. Instruct your mom to do the same. It's** Ramadan**.....be nice.....go with polite vagueness. After all, "what goes around comes around."
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^so funny!! lol
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^ LOL...I LOVE #7
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Naqsa. Everytime I read your nick I am compelled to recite allah humma inna nasta eenuka.. in my head.
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OMG!!!
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RV....................I love your list of pointers and will definitely take them into consideration with a particularly annoying friend of mine who seems to have the same problem.
Jalebi darling, I suggest the same as RV. Throw her off by giving her vague answers, dont show her ANYTHING you've gotten made, lie about your wedding jora colors, etc.
Seriously, its your day and you dont need this headache to worry about.
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I cant stand girls who become all secretive an stuck up about their wedding plans, like whats the point? its just one day and then u have to face the same people after woulds 
I have this cousin who got married a few weeks ago, and while I was in Pakistan I had asked her what colour she was wearing on her wedding day (so I dont get the same colour as her) and she replied me with: “I’m not gonna tell anyone, its gonna be a surprise” 
… she didn’t share anything with me, in a nut shell she become a right bittch…
So then when her wedding was done with, she came around and had a cheek to ask me what colour I was wearing…
i think your cousin really looks up to you. i mean honestly if she seems to really copy your sense of style for her WEDDING then that shows how much she appreciates your taste. At the same time I understand how you feel because I KNOW how its like to have someone act like they have their own taste but secretly try to copy you or TRY to be better than you. you should make her understand that individuality is essential in making your wedding day special. just randomly say something like "you're gonna make such a pretty bride! you have different taste so im sure you'll be wearing something very unique unlike other brides!"
If she continues to ask about what you're wearing make something up. sound excited about it so that she believes you. don't get irritated, take this positively! Good luck!
what a +ive attitude! :)
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urz is first so she will luk lyk a dumb copy cat loser anyways!! so if i wud b u i wud stick to my orignal choices!
I am so glad u put this last bit in 
otherwise i was gonna say, these suggestions are horrible… especially in the month of Ramadan. Obviously we should never be advocating lying… but during Ramadan.. not at all.
But glad, it was just a mocking thing..
sorry for being all sensitive and stuff… bad day