Re: baby weight!!people hate!!!
Fortunately, everything in our life doesn’t start and end at random sayings of random ‘aunties’ or good old evil MIL.
If my sister doesn’t have the nerve to consider/respect her own mother/sisters’ well intentioned advice, then its her who’s being a miserable rebel. I don’t think we’ve ever been rude to her or made her feel inadequate in private or public yet she has to take offence in every little thing related to her image and lifestyle. In fact she’s hurt my mum with her ‘just ignore it’ and get out of my face’ attitude which frankly speaking, stinks and makes you look like a cold reactionary idiot, she sadly thinks somehow it makes look like a bigger person. Which makes her look even more pathetic. We figured our advice about her image is really not welcomed no matter what we say or how nicely we say it. And to you know what, its her loss really. Its a blessing to have people who pay attention to you, try to make you look at the brighter side of things, motivate and help you to achieve milestones. And no I’m not talking about aunties or the evil MIL, nor we recommended my sister to lose weight within 6-8 or whatever weeks after giving birth.