Re: baby weight!!people hate!!!
Yes, there is pressure in western culture to be skinny, but desi women (not all off course but a lot of them) feel that its okay or acceptable for them to comment on other peoples weight. It annoys me, I have a little cousin who is 17 and I think she looks great but I’ve heard aunties telling her to lose weight, no one willl marry her, if she’s eating telling her that she’s had enough. Its not healthy for anyone to be hearing that.
Even if nadz gained considerable weight its unrealistic for people to comment on her being back to her pre-pregnancy shape within 4 months of giving birth, and even then as Sahar said she could lose all the weight and still not have the same shape. Its no one’s buisness to comment on her weight.
Nadz - Just keep doing what you’re doing, it’s hard but don’t let their comments discourage you or force you into unhealthy habits.