baby vs life goals

Nina85 · March 4, 2011, 4:56am

Re: baby vs life goals

do you guys think it’s selfish to delay having a baby for a couple of years so you can sort your life out and create a foundation for your ultimate goals and wishes for your life?

i’ve been having baby feeling soon after i got married … i guess that’s natural … i dont know, maybe not … it’s been over a year that i’m married. lately both my husband and i have been feeling so good about the thought of having a baby. it’s such a cute thought … sometimes we casually stop by at a shop window with super tiny baby clothes .. and we’re like awwwwwwwww … but even so, we both know it’s just not done right now. we have (an approximate) 5 year plan … not just for a baby but of our life as well, to bring it into a desired direction. hmph …

by what age should a woman must have already had her first child to avoid complications with growing age?

Not selfish…do what is right for you