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brain man.
i am not having wine-flu anymore 
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yeah we are copy-pasting you lines and sometimes we do that even before you post 
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restless, any last words of wisdom for women who more than a decade over the "peak" age you mentioned?
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It's best to get married early, between 16-18 for a girl .. when she is at the peak of her youth. Then the couple can take their time to have babies.
How old should the guy be?
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Shhh .. I only have limited wisdom, dont expect me to answer any random questions 
But since you are nice, I can work something out – Not everyone marries for the purpose of procreation. Hows that?
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How old should the guy be?
5-10 years older?
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if you can afford a baby then you should have one. But it isn't selfish not to
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do you guys think it's selfish to delay having a baby for a couple of years so you can sort your life out and create a foundation for your ultimate goals and wishes for your life?
i've been having baby feeling soon after i got married ... i guess that's natural ... i dont know, maybe not .... it's been over a year that i'm married. lately both my husband and i have been feeling so good about the thought of having a baby. it's such a cute thought ... sometimes we casually stop by at a shop window with super tiny baby clothes .. and we're like awwwwwwwww ... but even so, we both know it's just not done right now. we have (an approximate) 5 year plan ... not just for a baby but of our life as well, to bring it into a desired direction. hmph ...
by what age should a woman must have already had her first child to avoid complications with growing age?
Not selfish...do what is right for you
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It's best to get married early, between 16-18 for a girl .. when she is at the peak of her youth. Then the couple can take their time to have babies.
Oh no I've passed my prime :(