Re: Baby talk right after marriage
meher and notorious... hugs to you... i feel so sad for both of you. thank God, I didnt face this kind of treatment but i used to get really pissed when ppl used to ask or say things in a jokin way askin me when we will b three or khushkhabri thing or... are you tryin and stuff.. but now ive been tryin for 7-8 months and no luck. lets see. notorious ur parents n inlaws had definitely put unwanted pressure on you and i understand you must have gotten sick and tired of their lectures. and meher i agree, there are ppl who get happy and relieved if you are not preg. like ur aunt for example..... its not like she hates u or wants bad for u. i m sure she feels threatened herself when smone asks or sympathises abt her daughter not havin baby after so many yrs. so put her in ur shoes too. she isnt givin u bad duah i m sure, she is just relieved to know that her daughter wudnt have to bear comparisons that see meher got preg. i can tell u this frm my own experience. i and one of my hubs cousin got married around same time and she didnt get preg i m sure she mst b tryin cus she was in pak with her inlaws, so imagine!!! but honestly, i was happy that atleast comparisons nahi honge and i can have sum peace but now last yr in sep, i got news she is preg so i m under sooooooooo mch pressure to have baby. so its like, ek tarha ka sahara tha that she didnt have baby after tryin so long and here i was tellin them we r not tryin and then after 1 1/2 yrs we strted sayin duah karein ap. Inshallah meher I hope Allah gives u the gud news soon ... and wish the same for myself too :D
just wanted to share my thots.