I answer truthfully to those women that care for me and my and my husbands happiness. The other women are just nosy and neither do I nor does my husband have a close relationship with them. Therefore yes, it does bring great joy to a family when someone is pregnant but to those people, trust me it does not. Actually they will be happier knowing that they forced me to have a baby( which will never happen). Please read my posts clearly as I'm asking for suggestions to get these women off my back so they will stop asking at the same time I don't want be extremely rude.
i dont know whether u have encountered or not but there is another group of aunties who will be more than happy, within their hearts, if they ever come to know that you are having difficulty in conceiving.(they themselves presumes this as well)
this is very unfortunate, but have such kind of aunty in my in laws. whenever she comes to know that there is no 'khuskhabri' from me yet, i see a kind of relief/satisfaction on her face..very strange but true..once she asked this same question from me and my MIL five times in one week.. May be becauce her daughter has fertility issues and she is still trying after seven years of marriage.. i pray for her daughter cz she is such a nice girl, i feel for her but her mother simply sucks.. dont know how to deal with her, cant be rude cz she is a close relative of my hubby