baby boy?

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mashallah i never have any miscarriage. ..and any difficulty having other two .....i think its kind of my own wish to have a boy but my husband he never said a word he is totally cool person and love girls more than any thing ...but its just me who wants to complete the family

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well honestly i was shocked to read all the remarks ..........
i dont know ......i think i was nt supposed to start all this .......

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You're pretty new here Mrs O...so no worries. Past posts have made this a rather heated topic...some people want only boys and do not tolerate girls very well whether its due to in-laws or husband or whatever other reason there may be. Before your whole story came out, it just sounded like you wanted a boy and thats it so it raised tensions. Understandable yeah? Hang in there, dont give up...there are so many wonderful and supportive people here and even if you get "beat up" occasionally, they're really the best people I've ever known. And beleive me, I've gotten beat up pretty badly a couple of times here...its just that you need to explain yourself fully and stick up for what you beleive in.

You will be blessed I;m sure...with the little angel that God/Allah decides will be the best one for you. Meantime, do your best to get the result that you want!

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thanks Mamaof3 i was really get confused by all this ............i wasnt sure i should give detail of my self so ithought i should explain te reason only ...........
well
will be carefull for the next time.....

Timepass April 2013
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my experience the more u want smething to happen, the opposite happens, so just pray for a healthy child and if Allah will, you will get a boy/girl, its not in your hands, just take whatever comes your way and be grateful for it, in the end Allah knows what is best for you!

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kia zamana ah gya ,grlz ko tu sharm rhi hi nhi
kitny openly yh topic discuse kiye ja rhy hai

toba............

i thnk this type of topic should be close

Tsunami Reloaded
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Dear I can well understand ur wish and its really very natural to wish for both genders. I had 2 boys and really wanted to have a girl from the very first time. After i conceived for 3rd one i was sure that i would never have a girl but Allah blessed us with the most adorable little girl alhumdAllah. I think the only way is to pray to Allah the Almighty. May Allah bless u with a healthy happy lovely boy!!!!!

Timepass April 2013
Timepass April 2013
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i dun understand why the outrage. for sure, outkast is NOT playin God. she just wants to have a baby boy. In the end its in the hands of God but that dusnt mean she cant try the methods or tricks to have baby boy. there is no guarantee it will work but atleast she can try. I m with you woman... Inshallah may Allah bless you with a healthy baby no matter what gender.

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is it really work??????????

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I suggest IVF with gender selection.

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Agree.

We are careless about girls or boys. Only my bhabhi each time wanted boy and got girl but we don't care.

I know our society make it difficult to have girl(s) but how could anyone control sex of a child lol.

Why would ppl try to control the sex of a child which they can't. Allah kay mamlay main taang arana. Always remain happy what you get from Allah.

It's sure is jahalat.

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be thankful wht ALLAH gaves u me r pregnat but i dont want to know the gendar but my husband. apart from this i take my hands up and pray that my baby comes healtly 2 this world no matter girl or boy its a part of me and thats all.

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Awww thats cute.

Masha Allah.

Good luck and get a farmabardar and naik bachcha and genius too. You made me happy.

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Don't worry this is nothing as compared to other baysharam topics discussed by young and unmarried and married girls and boys EWWW don't remind me.

GS is so open to each and everythings.

Ironically you will find every thing in this Muslim ppls forum.

is use of ironically is right or wrong in my sentence as I don't know.

Sheeeeesh don't say anything only few ppl like 4 or 5 are not like that but all will come chasing you like hungry dogs.

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salam ....

lol ......whatever every one is writing abt wat i ask for .....so ..for ur information i asked this "thing" from moms not form new married or having first baby or unmarried girls....but everyone can answer so they did ....(as their mental approach) ....i knew i was asking this bi g question but no one has honest answer for it except few ...
thats really shows the mentality of "our culture"......ladies love to blame on other ladies .....but they dont help ...thats so poor abt our society ......thats y we are so poor caz we dont like to help others .......
i believe on ALLAH and etc... but common .....this was a gernal question not a matter of death and life abt a baby ..... and now a days things are so common even living in abroad every teenagers know everything ///so who ever said it s jahiliat....their mentality is like that ......and if u go to doctor or just google it abt slecting a baby gender ther is hundreds of methods to choose from .... and ladies who have knowledge know everything ... and their answers are decent too ..... but who dosent know ...their answer shows.................and AT LAST I WAS JUDGING DO OUR LADIES HAVE ANY KNOWLEDGE ABT IT BUT ........lol .......i knew one extended family two sis got married and they both have baby boys within a time period ...and i got to know that they have used some methods(tips and tricks) and ofcourse they were from pakistan but migrate here in usa ...so i was just curious .... what other ladies might know abt it .........and i end up this(jahiliat) thing ..............uffffffffffffffffff
this place is like we can share our things without knowing each other ...but ..i guess not.. .... and plz this topic is for moms and for real moms ..

Full Time Masti - May 2013
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Awww outcast sorry if I hurt you. I didn't mean to hurt you.

For myself it is bewaqoofi as we can't control sex of a child by doing anything. My bhabhi does what not to get a boy and each time she gets girl. LOL. She can't. No one can't control which is in Allah's hand.

Sorry I have to refrain from telling the truth but I can't. I'm trying to help me to keep quite instead of telling truth.

My prayers for you to have a baby boy. I never said this for my bhabhi as I'm happy. I love girls don't know why?

My bhateejies are so genius masha Allah.

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my point is..... i know no one can control the sex yes after when u get pregnant but yes u can try to choose one before u plan the baby ......
and i know no method is hundred % gives u asurity .....but still there is 50% chance \
and in most cases i have seen people do succeed ....... i have seen so many examples around me .. .... but after u got pregannat...u can not do any thing except pray to ALLAH whatever it is .....and one should be happy caz ALLAH always do best for us even we dont think its right for us ....
like i have known one lady she want baby boy so does her in laws too ...but she ended up having a third girl .... .that was fine ...but same time her one more friend was pregnant and she had baby boy .......both ladies want baby boy ...one planned it did some "home work "and prayed to ALLAH other just prayed and .....
and i believe ALLAH listen us HE asked from angles wats the man want and if we gave HIM our request before the"event" HE surely gonna listen to it .... so i just want to say how u get result .without any "solid preparation" no one can succeeed the exam with out preparing it ......and there is only one chance ... definatly u gonna end up with one sex........y dont u try for one u want ....

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and hirra im not hurrt ...... its like no one has any information abt thses stuff ....... its so sad ...... we know every thing ...............EVERYTHING..............
unmarried can ask such bold questions ......they know before the marriage wat BC they want and wen a married mother of two said dsome thing it s bysharmi ....well talking here is like we can share our persnolas thta we do not want share people around us ......we still feel pitty who has 6 or 7 girls thinking like oh they maigh want boy thats y anded up 6 or 7 girls ......and i was watching geo there was a show abt ladies .... and articles ...too ladies got divorced .... y they gave birth of babby girl .....and its all man fault ... but our culture its so sad wat wrong with that women and with the baby ......who loss her father and she loss her husband ..........its riddiclus

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Oh sorry. I feel so sorry that I said that. Yeah I know sometimes it's hard for a lady. She get lots of tana and dhamki for having daughters. I feel so ashamed of myself why I said that. I forgot you might have problem or shauq.

Sorry for that again.

I don't have any knowledge about that topic. I heard some but I didn't pay attention I will try to find out for you and post.

I know cases where husband kut (marna) his wife and threw her because she gave birth to 3rd daughter.

But we masha Allah don't say a single word to our bhabhi. My mom was beta lover but she even didn't say a single word to her and use to love her daughters more then us.

My prayers are for you sis to have a baby boy, healthy, genius, naik and parhaizgar and become gr8 sahara for you. Ameen.

Again lot's of apologies.

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OH MINE ......THIS IS USE LESS BEHASS ....AND HONESTLY IM HAVING NOTHING SERIOUS AROUND ME .....SO I THINK WE SHOULD CLOSE THIS TOPIC ...AND THANKS FOR YOUR PRAYERS EVEN THOUGH ...U TOOK MY ANSWER TOTALLY WRONG ...