Sara516
November 3, 2012, 2:48am
42
Re: Baahir ki larkiyan
A friend of mine here got married to someone from here and later found out he was already married to a “gori” and her nikah was annulled. She was pregnant at the time, and had to abort the child. Not to mention all the heartache she went through. The guy’s family wanted their next generation to be desi so they didn’t approve of his first marriage and hid the info from my friend. Cases like these are really scary!
Seriously, wtf? she HAD to have an abortion???
and
again…really? that’s your example of marrying a guy from here? You do realize that you are no different from the family who give examples of the “bad” baahir ki larkiyaN?
Well you’re certainly not going to meet your future husband inside your own house! I don’t know much about Canada so someone can correct me if I’m wrong. But isn’t there a good sized desi community where you live? Isn’t there a masjid or other desi events held there? What is preventing your parents from becoming more social? You guys can’t go to the masjid or other desi events as a family?
What is preventing you from going out at least once a week so the masjid or other desi and/or Islamic events? You don’t have any Pakistani female friends who you can go out with even once a week to places where you can be seen and have a chance to meet new people to expand your network?
There is more to Canada than Mississsauga and Brampton…Canada is 7 huge provinces…just like US has cities wiht heavy desi populations, doesn’t mean all of US is like that…