Re: Baahir ki larkiyan
Ah, you are on my case 
Desi guys (some, not all) are intimidated if their wife is very educated and they get insecure easily. Believe it or not, but this family that I wrote about, that guy has a masters but he once said to me ‘when I come to Canada, I will probably start a business (because don’t want to upgrade my studies) and even though in business one can potentially make a lot of money, I would still have just a “pakistani degree” and I don’t want to be defined by my wife’s credentials.’ One of the reasons why they backed out is because I was apparently too educated for them, and ideally they wanted a girl who would work till like 3pm then come home, clean the house, have dinner ready for hubby when he comes back, and take very good care of herself. Kind of like an all-rounder. With my schedule, sometimes I work till 7 and I am not sure how well I will manage my household. Only time will tell.