Re: Baahir ki larkiyan
hehe no no, maybe it came across that way. I was strictly speaking about the few experiences I’ve had here. I believe in getting to know someone first and then forming an opinion about them. Maybe it’s just my luck, I either get weird questions from guys or their moms about whether or not I wear western dresses and how short they are (when sitting down), or I get those families who don’t see a problem in drinking casually and assume that because I went to business school and work in a corporate place, I would be okay with this.
True, there are no guarantees. A few of my family friends’ daughters sponsored their husband but no one upgraded their studies here so now they are unfortunately stuck doing work that they might have considered to be beneath them back home.
And even if the guy has Canadian education background and currently working in a good post, there is no guarantee that it will always stay that way. Layoffs are so common in North America, and it sometimes takes a really long time to find work again. Also, sometimes circumstances are such that people want to move around (maybe go to Pakistan for a few years) etc. It really depends on what’s in your kismat. Apni taraf se tu har koi ache ki hi khwahish karta hai.