Re: Baahir ki larkiyan
Assuming everything else about the guy and his family is acceptable, and he has a stable job with an income that can provide you with the lifestyle you expect…then I think its absolutely riduculous for you to reject a guy ONLY b/c he didn’t study beyond undergrad.
Well you’re certainly not going to meet your future husband inside your own house! I don’t know much about Canada so someone can correct me if I’m wrong. But isn’t there a good sized desi community where you live? Isn’t there a masjid or other desi events held there? What is preventing your parents from becoming more social? You guys can’t go to the masjid or other desi events as a family?
What is preventing you from going out at least once a week so the masjid or other desi and/or Islamic events? You don’t have any Pakistani female friends who you can go out with even once a week to places where you can be seen and have a chance to meet new people to expand your network?