Re: **Can anyone relate to my marriage concerns? :(
i agree with both Fraudz and Mof3... :)
another thing is... people dream of is a pefect marriage and there is no harm in doing so.. but what really is a perfect marriage? is it one where the couple never argue? one where the hubby works and wife stays home and hubby brings wife pressies and things all the time? is it one we're both are working and earn high salaries and so they can do watever they want... what really is a perfect marriage?
a perfect marriage is different for every individual.. i think mine is perfect regardless of the tiffs we have. It's because i expected them, i expected the tension.. who doesnt? but the person i married is my prince charming.. my knight in shining armour.. and thats all that matters..
at 15, i dont think anyone really has any idea of what kind of person they want to marry... yes u have hopes and dreams and this hope of ending up with someone out of ur imagination, but that's what being a teenager is all about.. about dreaming.. and hoping.
when you 'grow up' u realise these hopes and dreams are all good and stuff, but not realistic at all. there's so much more to a person than having similar interests.. so much more to love than that.. and u'll learn about it as u grow older.. and once u do find ur perfect match, u'll laff at the things u put priority on at 15 :)