Avoiding Divorce ....

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i dunno but i always thought abt it that when divorce happens mostly coz of mental/physical n emotional abuse like
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It is like that, a lot of times and I think we all hope that people who treat their spouses like that will get what's coming to them.

But not all the time. I know of one case where both were basically forced/blackmailed into the marriage by less than understanding families. They both tried their hardest, bless them, but it didn't work. They ended it, but remain on good terms, Alhamdullillah, and both now lead happy lives with the spouse of their own choosing and keep their outraged families at a distance.

No abuse, no harsh words. Just something that didn't work.

Another case had to do with a girl who, it was later discovered, was having an affair. Husband adored her and it nearly broke him. Took him 5 years to get over the split.