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i seriously feel that new generation should change standards now. instead of being critical abt a divorce lady its now time to giv a divorce guy n his family real hard time.
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Agreed. It's often too easy for men to get married after a divorce. For whatever reason, people too often put the blame on the ex wife and everybody is eager to believe it.
Then again, this happens quite a bit too. Scratch said it best:
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I know of several very recent cases where girls behaved totally irrationally and unfairly towards the husbands and their families, despite the latter party doing everything to save the marriage. In all the cases, the poor-girl-victim-card was used extremely effectively by the girls to get out of the marriage to either marry a former flame or pursue material goals after realizing that marriage and family is too much of a responsibility for them to handle. Left some very responsible, mature and decent guys wondering where did they go wrong.
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Either of the above two scenarios is bad news. People need to view each potential spouse with an open mind. Divorce should prompt some close questioning and investigation, definitely. But ultimately, it's that person's "sharafat," open-mindedness, intelligence, and kindness that should win the day...divorced or not.