Re: Avoiding Divorce ....
the only thing that disturbs me in divorce cases is how come men get remarry within few months of divorce? why no body ever questions their ability to b a good husband next time. how many times the new to-b wife for this divorced guy actually meets the ex-wife n her family n asks their side of story. i think in most cases the guys n their families put all the blame on the ex-wife n themselves pull an innocent face "larki bud-zubaan thee, izzat nahi kerti thee hum tu usay apni baiti ki tarah rekhtay thay " OR" bad character thee "OR else"hum ne buhat koshish ke us ki minaatain keen wo nahi mani aur talaq lai lee"
i seriously feel that new generation should change standards now. instead of being critical abt a divorce lady its now time to giv a divorce guy n his family real hard time. only then they'll learn to b more mellow. coz right now its a very common concept" mard ko dosri mil jaiy gee, aurat ko jhukna chahiay" so the guys n inlaws feel no pressure from society n behaves in the most irrational ways.