Recently I have been noticing that my tone has changed to a little more Authoritative rather than a request or humble kind of tone.I realize it right after I have talked in that way:bummer:
What could be the reasons for that?Is it the job? And how do I stop this from developing further.
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That biological change means you are ready for marriage.
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LMAO!!
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LP! its mean u reached near to the retirement age 
P.S. always read the books about our Prophet Muhammad 
life. This will help u :k:
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lp i m feeling the same thing i feel like i m being professional i hate it :( i m soo sick of grettings now
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choti princess..its not a probelm..its beneficial actually bcs females cant n shouldnt b soft all the time otherwise the jack wolf man will eat us up!
You can’t have the same tone for every situation. Having a meek and humble tone of voice all the time can give the impression that you easy to push around. An authoritative tone exudes more confidence, shows you mean business. As long as you have an understanding of what tone (calm, firm, sympathetic, etc) is appropriate for the situation…and also manage to be respectful while being firm.
I think your job could be a possible reason. In my case it is. I’m generally soft-spoken, but since I started teaching (and giving orders throughout the day)…the authoritativeness will sometimes reflect in my voice even outside of school. Again, it’s not something that you should get rid of completely. Life will demand you to have an authoritative attitude from time to time and you need a voice to match it.
lkk 
retirement hogi aapki
for the suggestion.
awww:hugz:
nah the professional part isnt a prob with me..i 
it
but I dont know any wolf type men who will eat me:bummer:
ok on a serious note…soni the authoritative tone isnt good at home with siblings and all 
I use a wrong tone nowadays:hinna:
Teaching didnt effect me in the beginning and now this is my 6th month.Maybe its effecting now.
There are times when I don’t mean to be authoritative but the tone comes out that way:bummer: and once its out there’s no taking it back:(
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Monk’s reply says it all 
Pak Sar Zameen Shadbad pr sub man jack wolf nahi hotain
LP! don’t worry 'bout me heheheh mujeh retirement nahi mil sakti
yeah yeah 
:silestar:kabhi serious reply na dijiyega:hoonh:
kyon jee…u dont age:omg:
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infact meri dob char saal baad ati hay 
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then you be authoritaive char saal baad:emmy:
ab tell me a quick solution to my prob werna 
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problem u hay ke tum aaj kaal buhat sawaal pochti ho jaise mai baba pochtain 'Oye bacho aise mat karo waisa mat kara etc etc' meri mano retirement ke kareeb ho retire ho jao sukhi raho gi :D
solution yeh hay ke haath mein tasbi pakro or astaghfaar karti raho
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astaghfar kerti hoon.
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astagfar karti raha tab tk jab tk woh tumhari post ke bara bar tk na pohanch jay
^LOL! So, you’re a teacher too then. First year? We give orders throughout the day, and expect students to follow directions the first time around. It’s a draining job. Buy the end of the day you’re so exhausted, that when you go home, you expect everyone else (that is not your student) to listen, follow directions, get with it, make your life easier. And when they don’t…that authoritative tone can kick in…as though it never checked out when you signed out from work at the end of the day. I can see the good in it the though, the job can make you a bit more assertive. At least you KNOW that you’re overdoing it…so that means that you have the ability to tone it down when necessary. Some people don’t realize that at all.
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I don't find anything wrong with this...an authoritative tone helps you be assertive when you know you are right and gives a stronger image....
but using it "all" the time can be annoying for people around...just avoid using it in all situations..werna in itself its not a bad habit ;)
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Your female balls dropped.
That biological change means you are ready for marriage.
lol.That was actually funny