I have notes these auntie traits in some Pakistani girls born n bred in Europe. For example I know this girl who got so angry cuz this ex-friend of mine called her. And then she was sending me angry text messages that why was she calling her and so on.
Come on, what influence can I have on a person who called her self my friend but backed off totally in the most important time of my life and ever since she didn’t contact me…this girl who was getting angry knows the whole story that I am not touch with the other girl but kept being so angry. I literally controlled my anger a lot. Otherwise I guess we would have had a fight for the first time in all the years I have known her.
Her behaviour was so much like these aunties who would just find someone to blame things on and to fight with….Ironically she really makes a fuss of not being a typically desi but to me she is such a typical one!!
How come some ppl can be so typical Pakistani (in the negative sense) despite being born and raised up in Europe or anywhere else outside Pakistan?
As far as I have seen from this girl – her family is very much like that so I guess that one learns these tacticts n stuff in the family
It's not about being born or bred in a different country, you're influenced by different people regardless of where you live. If your mom, aunt, people you spend time with are aunty types, chances are you would act that way too. Just like I used to think that men born and raised abroad are not so much of those meri-biwi-should-cook-do-everything types like they generally are in pak, especially the clingy to mama types, but I have seen SOOO many 'abcds' have the same kind of mentality. if you grow up in a certain lifestyle, you will become a part of it.
WOW girl how intelligent and open minded of you to use your own country's name in a Negative Sense.
I would say go and stand in front of the mirror. You need to teach a thing or two, to the person you'll see in that before you start pointing out others.
I have notes these auntie traits in some Pakistani girls born n bred in Europe. For example I know this girl who got so angry cuz this ex-friend of mine called her. And then she was sending me angry text messages that why was she calling her and so on.
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As far as I have seen from this girl – her family is very much like that so I guess that one learns these tacticts n stuff in the family
WOW
I mean look at your self first kido.
You foreign borns have this thing, who ever you want to insult instead of calling him/her names you ppl call them aunty/uncle.
Thats SO typical,
Girl is being un reasonable no question about it, but when you stereotype her, remember you a rea type too. Trust me!!
WOW
I mean look at your self first kido.
You foreign borns have this thing, who ever you want to insult instead of calling him/her names you ppl call them aunty/uncle.
Thats SO typical,
Girl is being un reasonable no question about it, but when you stereotype her remember you area type too. Trust me!!
I mean really all of you grow up.
I hope she does not wish that she was born in a gora family. Good and bad are everywhere , in every community , every country. You cannot stereotype the whole country or community based on behavior of some people.
What about famous desi strong women , Sukria Khanum , first Pakistani pilot auntie, about Mohterma Fatima Jinnah a desi strong woman , leader, Banazeer Bhutto first desi auntie to become Pakistani Prime Minister, Bilqees Edhi very strong desi auntie philanthropist, the list goes on.
Why don't you stereo type in a positive way instead of negative sense ?
Aunty type- girls? lol
I love all my aunty's (ok, mayb not all) and I find it soo annoying when ppl refer to Aunty's as if it's a bad thing! Secondly, yeah the girl's being unreasonable but not Aunty'ish..maybe that's just her nature...
All of you saying that I shouldnt judge like that, yes I do agree. However I would say that there are some typical traits in both a good and a not so good way.
Pakistani have lots of talents and good qualities. Many Pakistanis have proven to be best in their fields.
However there can be some groups among the larger Pakistani group and I was referring to the group of illitrate jahil type of ppl and perhaps I should have written that explicitly instead of generalising the whole Pakistani community so my appologies for those of you who felt offended!!
Anyhows my point was that its just surprising to see young girls behaving like jahil elders.
how do u know the reason for her backing off was ur marriage????
did ur friend actually said that she backed off cuz she was jealous??
or ur just assuming that this cu be the reason?
Yes she told me that she was jealous that I was getting married and said good luck with ur married life and just dissappeared after that day!
cudnt that ex-friend of urs be the reason???
do u think u were fair with both of them???
u were not bending towards one of ur fiends??
and r u 100% sure of this???
The other friend was not in touch with her so I dont think so.
She was living abroad but still I had a lot contact with her so there was not any bending towards one or the other. they didnt live in the same country.
All of you saying that I shouldnt judge like that, yes I do agree. However I would say that there are some typical traits in both a good and a not so good way.
Pakistani have lots of talents and good qualities. Many Pakistanis have proven to be best in their fields.
However there can be some groups among the larger Pakistani group and I was referring to the group of illitrate jahil type of ppl and perhaps I should have written that explicitly instead of generalising the whole Pakistani community so my appologies for those of you who felt offended!!
Anyhows my point was that its just surprising to see young girls behaving like jahil elders.
exactly an example of stereotype i keep referring to in different threads. For one aunties arent bad or a different species altogether, secondly you do not need to put the 'Pakistani' word everywhere. All types, all cultures, all religion people can be auntyish. That girl is wrong in doing what she did but what you are saying about Pakistanis on a public forum is even worst!
As for the "illitrate jahil type of ppl" sorry but Pakistanis are not sponsored by their government for hi-fi education that your West countries provide you.
she was ur friend and was closer to u than her so she was expecting u to be in touch with her more than the other friend or not??
so u said u were in contact with ur other friend so may be she felt betrayed no betrayed wont be the word i will say may be she felt like u dont need her anymore
dont u think so???
its not bout being jealous its bout being important frien of urs in the important time of ur life
she was with u every time in ur life and at this important time u were prefering sum1 else but here so..........................
exactly an example of stereotype i keep referring to in different threads. For one aunties arent bad or a different species altogether, secondly you do not need to put the 'Pakistani' word everywhere. All types, all cultures, all religion people can be auntyish. That girl is wrong in doing what she did but what you are saying about Pakistanis on a public forum is even worst!
if you read my last sentence it says what my point was!
