All i was saying is that the **expression and the love and caring has to come through in the eyes **even if the guy was not conventionally handsome how he looks at me matters. The eyes speak volumes. I rarely feel it with most men only a few. It’s like an instant connection where you just feel so very comfortable with that person and like you’ve known the person for years. They bring a certain calmness to you.
And no I don’t mean physical attractiveness because I have felt absolutely nothing for a man that was conventionally handsome because I just felt nothing for him or in his eyes when we spent time together. That just might be that he felt nothing for me. With certain people you just click and feel a certain intensity, spark that has nothing to do with physical attraction.
