Attraction

uzair1 · March 17, 2014, 6:48pm

Re: Attraction

I’m trying to talk and get to know someone that I am not attracted to at all. I just don’t feel comfortable with at all. Highly educated, two phds and very religious, very knowledgeable on religious issues which is a big plus and he can cook really delicious stuff, But I must have met him in person 3 or 4 times now and I’m trying to get myself attracted to him. I feel absolutely nothing for him. zilch zero blah. He does see abcds as know nothing about our culture people which is a negative. Then again no one is perfect. He’s having green card problems and is looking for an American desi to marry…he jokes about that.

I guess there are people that can be married to someone they are not attracted to at all or they are not attracted to you at all. I don’t understand that.

I’d rather be single.

The way a man looks at me and what I feel when I look into his eyes is so important when it comes to attraction. I’ve been attracted to a guy with glasses, skinny, but his easy going personality and just the way he looked at me was so awesome. There has to be that special thing behind the eyes not as much physical attraction.

Are you afraid of admitting that looks matter?

You could’ve just said that the double 2xPhd guy is physically unattractive.

And the point is? Plenty of guys who wear glasses are good looking. Plenty of people who dont wear them are ugly. Whats your point again?