do u guys think that a relationship can workout if there is no physical attraction and only mental…like the person is only in love with the persons personality but not the outer appearance:hmmm:
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^ I think that's pretty risky. It can make one feel inadequate if they find that their spouse is not attracted to them.
I guess anything can work, but I wouldn't do it.
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Yes it can, physical attraction can be overlooked but these cases occur mainly with friends as opposed to meeting a random person from the library; you'd consider their looks first
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beauty lies in eyes of the beholder
so if u luv somones personality u will prolly b fine with their appearance bcuz of ur luv
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possible. surprisingly they are many lonely souls out there who are willing to look beyond the surface and prefer to settle for blissful companionship.
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out of 100% i give 75% to personality...character & other stuffs & i give 25% to looks.
I dont expect him to be drop dead gorgeous...but he shud look good in my eyes...& the people whose opinion i respect.
i dont care if looks play a small part or big part in our lives. It has a part to play. So looks does matter...& u have to be physically attracted to someone if u r gonna marry him.
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a lot of the times i found myself really attractive to a person because of their personality
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I guess it's possible. :)
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If there is attraction between the two, regardless of being physical or mental, so long the two are attracted greatly to each other, sure! Though there are ups and downs and give and take and adjustments and accomdation and it all works out 
But if one is told to like sm1 for he/she is very educated and mature etc etc. but not good looking, he/she will prove to be good, go ahead with that person… dunno how well or how long wud it work out. IT shud coem from one’s own heart
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^^ Yeah.
The first thing that catches my eye is always her looks as it is with many people. But that attraction can very quickly dissipate if there isn't a strong character behind that sexy physique. Take Beyonce Knowles for example, that body and face is amazing!!! But I get completely turned off as soon as she states her opinions about something.
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ahh...NO
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physical attraction in a relationship is only temporary, mental attraction is permanent. if physical attraction was everything than why do celebrity couples like brad pitt and jennifer aniston not work out?
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no,nobody wanted to get laid with mother teressa eventhough she had a great personality
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lol…ever seen a super model falling in love with a creep…lol…and not even for 4,000 bucks… 
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hahahhahahahahahah
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oh come on.... mother theresa was a nun!
if she wasnt i'm sure she cud made herself more sexually appealing with her looks, dressing etc
lolz
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if you love everything about the person from the inside....you will find them physically attractive no matter what they look like.
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^ Yup 
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^ And yet you said there is no physical attraction.
For a lot of people physical attraction eventually develops (I think especially for girls) upon getting to know each other and developing and emotional and mental connection, but it doesn't always develop. Having a spouse that is not physically attracted to you can make one feel inadequate and insecure.