Except OP is blushing when talking to them and having thoughts of an affair, albeit very lightly. That would suggest that she fixates on these men to some extent.
There’s a difference between casually noticing that someone is attractive, and fixating on them. The former is a passing thought, the latter leads to crushes and possibly more.
If you find them attractive or handsome that is no issue. However if you fantasize having affairs with them, well then woman there is a lot wrong. Why would you think of sleeping with other men if you say you are happy with your husband?
A man checks out a woman on the street he is a creep. A married woman fantasizes about other men, oh its a-okay. You lot are pretty facted up.
You are not the first person to say that actually. Three or four people have asked me the very same question. I can say with complete sincerity that I am not CM. I had to actually look up the tag to see what people were referring too and alas tis not I.
Oh yes the Dragonlance novels have been around since the 1980s, so if you are an American boy who grew up in the 80s you would know the signature, after all the cartoon was awesome.
do u watch or have u watched? lot of Bollywood movies? (Serious question)
btw, same thing happens with me. Every 2nd girl i see out on roads, my heartbeat goes up. My wife cares so much about my health that she blind folds me every-time I go out for walk.
icicle1, did you have a strong father/male figure in your life while growing up? It seems that many of your crushes focus on older/mature men..I've seen this happen with individuals who lacked that strong male figure in their youth.
i think do some bonding activities with your husband. Some adrenaline pumping exercising with a mixture of fear and excitement to drive such thoughts from your mind. Like water skiing, ice skating, rock climbing or maybe even sky diving.
