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app brad pitt ki jagah angelina jolie ko substitute kar len. problem solved.
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List-A sex tapes are always disappointing
Serves you right for ruining Superman for everyone
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Ummm...repulsion?
No. At least not from what I understand.
Women are expected to behave a certain way, not be sexually expressive and keep a sense of hayaa which is not really a word I can translate into English easily.
Re: attitudes towards sex
Ummm...repulsion?
No. At least not from what I understand.
Women are expected to behave a certain way, not be sexually expressive and keep a sense of hayaa which is not really a word I can translate into English easily.
This Hayya is such a buzz kill, being with a Pakistani girl for the first time after being in relationships with local girls it wasn't really that enjoyable because of the inhibitions, there really is no intimacy if one partner is reserved, I believe in total monogamy and that gets very boring if you are not going to try new things.
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This Hayya is such a buzz kill, being with a Pakistani girl for the first time after being in relationships with local girls it wasn't really that enjoyable because of the inhibitions, there really is no intimacy if one partner is reserved, I believe in total monogamy and that gets very boring if you are not going to try new things.
Like I said, its not exactly something easily understood or explained.
A woman needs to be understood very well in order for her to let inhibitions go. It doesn't happen overnight and it definitely doesn't happen with just anyone. For a Pakistani woman, a man she dates is different from the man she marries. It doesn't matter what she says or does...she is holding back and keeping a part of herself for her husband...its in the DNA.
And no, this may not hold true for all Pakistani girls but for a good amount of them...it does.
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This Pakistani guy once told me, jab larki sharmaati hai tu uspe aur ziada pyaar aata hai. And a girl who is forward/bold is most definitely experienced.
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Is that the reason why Pakistan is rated the number one country when it comes to porn related keyword searches on the internet?
^^^THAT I think is due to the lack of education and information on the subject
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Says who? Some politically correct 'sexpert'?
Its due to young men being horny and not having other sexual outlets (namely real girls to bang)
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This Pakistani guy once told me, jab larki sharmaati hai tu uspe aur ziada pyaar aata hai. And a girl who is forward/bold is most definitely experienced.
If you are married for a few years than you ought to be experienced, In my case I was the experienced partner and since she is the love of my life I want her to enjoy her sexuality and be pleasured the way she would like to be and we both give ourselves completely to each other, I know many men who want sharmili girls and are looking for whores outside the marriage because they are not satisfied, and don't be narrow minded, past never matters it is what you have now that matters. It is always the insecurities that are the problem
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alright then.
here you go, nadz.
also feel like i know a little too much about mr. and mrs. eliminators. i thought only women shared info like that so readily.
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I don't think we have a repulsive attitude towards it. We PRETEND to hate it. And some people never want to talk about it and brush all talk of sex under the carpet that is becoming ever so bulging what with all the "oh let's not talk about menstruation" and "oh let's not talk about drugs" piles under it, and so one day the kid grows up and Googles it and is fascinated or talks to their friend and is like oh really! But when you and I mention it, they are like "oh astaghfirullah sister you talk of sex it be haraam for life."
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I don't think we have a repulsive attitude towards it. We PRETEND to hate it. And some people never want to talk about it and brush all talk of sex under the carpet that is becoming ever so bulging what with all the "oh let's not talk about menstruation" and "oh let's not talk about drugs" piles under it, and so one day the kid grows up and Googles it and is fascinated or talks to their friend and is like oh really! But when you and I mention it, they are like "oh astaghfirullah sister you talk of sex it be haraam for life."
:)
Finally a sensible person, I am so open with my boys, we need to make them street smart, especially if they are good looking and potentially successful, otherwise they fall like timber at the first swing of a gold digger.
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"If a man is highly sexed, he's virile.
if a woman is, she's a nymphomaniac.
with them it's power
but with us it's a disease!
even the act if sex is called penetration
why don't they call it enclosure?"- Gemma Hatchback
i wonder if that's true for desis
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wasn’t there a thread similar to this about “wife a” and “wife b” types.. 
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i’ve no clue maybe
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Ummm...repulsion?
No. At least not from what I understand.
Women are expected to behave a certain way, not be sexually expressive and keep a sense of hayaa which is not really a word I can translate into English easily.
i guess i should clarify i'm talking about the way children are raised to think about it or taught about it. that's why i mentioned conditioning.
and not how grown up women perceive it. though we've had people on here say that they think sex is dirty...
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true this is sorta what i meant
and people pick on the one word i use instead of focusing on the topic 
but still, my point behind this was discuss how kids are exposed to these things and what the right approach is.
The girls from Pakistan have a real hard time expressing themselves sexually as sexual desires are equated to promiscuity, I had friends that were the sons of Pashtun chieftains that had the most amazingly beautiful wives that they wouldn't go to and would hang around some horridly ugly chicks. Experience will teach you it is no what you look like but what you can do that counts. I had relationships with western girls and they were very expressive about their sexuality and completely participated and some times took control of the situation. When I married my honey who is a McGill Graduate, I could feel that she had tons of inhibitions things were really good but not amazing enough that you could feel like you could die of ecstasy, it took a lot of trust building and loving to get to that level, now she I the initiator most of the time, I help her with the chores as I want her to have a lot of energy let over. I work in an industry with very good looking girls and never feel the need to look at any one. You give a girl love, she will give you happiness beyond your wildest dreams.
Is it just me, or we do hear a little bit too much specific detail about your sex life not only with your wife but your past sexual relationships. I remember reading something in another thread as well...
We get that your experienced but the way you talk about or compare your wife and ex girlfriends in the same posts so often is a little strange...
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Kind of what Niksik said. I don't think we find it repulsive but nobody wants to talk about it either with their children or in educational settings. Any topic regarding sexuality is brushed off or discouraged from even thinking about it until your married. Once your married your expected to have a switch that just turns on about it and if it doesn't, there's something wrong there. It's the lack of proper education and Pakistani parents not knowing how to address sex conversations in a healthy way. Also not willing to even talk about it as if it is shameful to even do so. It's always "no no no, not until your married." Disregarding all the other aspects of sexual health. I think a lot of Pakistani girls would be resistant to even talking about it with their mothers even after marriage because of the way our culture promotes sex.
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Any discussion towards sex is definitely a taboo subject in Pakistani society. This is very damaging for the society especially with the wide availability of internet in today's age. Children are turning to internet to get information and we know that internet is full of good as well as bad information. For parents who are not ready to have a direct conversation, they can provide education to their old-enough kids by leaving a sex education book in a common area of the house where kid might stumble upon it. And I certainly dont mean any illustrative book here, just something that discusses the subject and provides some guidance.
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A mother and a father was watching television, their 7 years old son came and asked them a question “Father, yeh sex kia hota he?” 
And you can imagine the situation, both mother and father was shocked, what did he say 
Father was blaming to the mother “yeh parwarish ki he tum ne bachey ki, nazar nhi rakhti sara din woh kahan kis sohbat main bethta he”
Fifteen minutes later, when father went to his room, what he saw:
His son was filling a school form, which contains:
Name:
Father Name:
Sex:
Address:
Father, then feeling very bad about what is our mentality. Kidz are inocent 