How do you think pakistani peoples are raised to think about sex?
I think most of us are conditioned to have a repulsive attitude towards it
Why do you think that is
At the same time, things are changing and people are acting more mature about the subject.
Discuss. Not a joke. Okay.
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Firstly I don't think anyone is conditioned to have a repulsive attitude towards it. Secondly I don't think there is a lack of maturity in our culture regarding it.
Having said that, sex in the Pakistani culture is a taboo issue which is generally not discussed in the home or often even between friends. It's due to the concept of sharam and haya which exists in our culture. This often leads to a lot of ignorance about the subject which can be damaging. Education is definitely needed in Pakistan (I don't know if sex ed exists over there, but my understanding is that it doesn't). Having said that I still likes the concept of sharam and I am in favour of it being witheld as I don't think it's necessary to go all out and be open about everything in every respect. A middle path is needed!
Is that the reason why Pakistan is rated the number one country when it comes to porn related keyword searches on the internet?
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^^^THAT I think is due to the lack of education and information on the subject
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The girls from Pakistan have a real hard time expressing themselves sexually as sexual desires are equated to promiscuity, I had friends that were the sons of Pashtun chieftains that had the most amazingly beautiful wives that they wouldn't go to and would hang around some horridly ugly chicks. Experience will teach you it is no what you look like but what you can do that counts. I had relationships with western girls and they were very expressive about their sexuality and completely participated and some times took control of the situation. When I married my honey who is a McGill Graduate, I could feel that she had tons of inhibitions things were really good but not amazing enough that you could feel like you could die of ecstasy, it took a lot of trust building and loving to get to that level, now she I the initiator most of the time, I help her with the chores as I want her to have a lot of energy let over. I work in an industry with very good looking girls and never feel the need to look at any one. You give a girl love, she will give you happiness beyond your wildest dreams.
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Dr. Phil I think you are mixing up intercourse with sex.
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^^^ Elaborate, all sex is not intercourse, but all intercourse is sex..Haha..remember Bill Clinton when he escaped perjury charges because he thought what he did to Monica wasn't sex..
Hmmm.If it is rape then it might be sex for one party only....I know I am bad..
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See the martial rape thread. That should tell you the attitude Pakistanis have towards sex.
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See the martial rape thread. That should tell you the attitude Pakistanis have towards sex.
The land where men are men and all other living beings are afraid.
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I think namaan hates me. :(((
Rest of you I'll reply when I'm on my laptop and not phone
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The girls from Pakistan have a real hard time expressing themselves sexually as sexual desires are equated to promiscuity, I had friends that were the sons of Pashtun chieftains that had the most amazingly beautiful wives that they wouldn't go to and would hang around some horridly ugly chicks. Experience will teach you it is no what you look like but what you can do that counts. I had relationships with western girls and they were very expressive about their sexuality and completely participated and some times took control of the situation. When I married my honey who is a McGill Graduate, I could feel that she had tons of inhibitions things were really good but not amazing enough that you could feel like you could die of ecstasy, it took a lot of trust building and loving to get to that level, now she I the initiator most of the time, I help her with the chores as I want her to have a lot of energy let over. I work in an industry with very good looking girls and never feel the need to look at any one. You give a girl love, she will give you happiness beyond your wildest dreams.
Odd, I gave a woman my entire love... so much so that I lost my identity in her love. She responded with "I cannot see a future with you". Heart broken I took up Ink and a pen, wrote a poem... threw it in to the river. Hoping that my words would forever be intertwined with nature and that one day the rains from the water of the river would fall upon my lover's face and that one day she would realize that what if she gave me a chance.
ok sad story over.. Grabs a cup of chai.
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I love it!!!
koi baat nai
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Happened to me also but I did not stop trying...as they say there is always another bus, A wise man once said marry the person that loves you and not the person you love. I am going to have a Chai Also! Cheers!
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I don't think we're conditioned to have a repulsive attitude towards it. We're simply not told about it. Parents think that if they don't talk about it kid won't find about it. Or it's just too weird talking about it.
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Okay GS always confuses me....who the hell finds sex repulsive and why?
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But boys give you cooties na. Best to stay away from them.
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Okay GS always confuses me....who the hell finds sex repulsive and why?
There's your answer.
But boys give you cooties na. Best to stay away from them.
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But boys give you cooties na. Best to stay away from them.
It's about time you found out how babies are made. You know when mommy and daddy love each other very much...
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You know I am a visual learner. So, a pictorial demonstration would do (don’t worry, it’s mod-free month), preferably with Brad Pitt in it. :k:
Brad Pitt and private pigeon!! Thanx for ruining my night with a mental picture madz.