Re: attitudes towards sex
So you open a thread about sex and expect the participants to do Milad, I was kind of mistaken that people are a bit open minded about sex, I was born and raised here and I mostly associate with Canadian people, we discuss sex openly at work and every one here wants to take their sexual life to a new level every day, this friend of my acquaintance just divorced his imported wife because she would not participate and say main gaandi jeezan nahi karti. Part of my life was spent in Africa and people are very open about sex there. In my naivety I was trying to help people achieve the height of happiness, why can’t Pakistani couples achieve the same level of pleasure as the western couples. so you lay there with your Hayya like a lifeless log, husband is on top for max 3 min and you want to do this for the rest of your life. Every second post is by girls about husbands cheating…hmmmm bored with the mundane sex maybe.
In the western world where their is dog eat dog open competition every day and most f the time nothing to worry about because of the undesirability factor but if your dude is attractive and successful the gori girl will snatch him out of your hands in seconds and do stuff to him that he will throw rocks at you. Learn to protect what is yours, We have been told that we are a very good looking couple and very successful financially and there are gold diggers on the prowl every day waiting for a weak moment to break the family but the happy sex life keeps us like a rock
It may surprise you, Islam promotes an active sex life. Much to the effect that it is highly encouraged to marry young (like in the teens) and the husband and wife can not refuse each other’s sexual requests. Foreplay is highly encouraged too. And Islamic books and hadiths are quite explicit on these things and their promotion.