Attitudes towards male rape victims

[pcormac2013]

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@pcormac2013

Really? damn i knew there had to be a copy. I guess its been desified though for the audience.
What about that movie where this girl likes a wife’s devoted husband and the wife sells her husband for a night only to have him fall in love with that girl./QUOTE]

Indecent proposal, woody allen, the bradford guy…i forget the actress.

That’s right and there was a bollywood remake called judai i think. no idea on the actress.

[pcormac2013]

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@muqawwee123

Reminds me Tulsi Virani giving lecture to her son for marital rape kia kharaafaat dikhate the ye sitare wale channel ke drame

Who is this Tulsi? Lecture for or against marital rape?? I mean its wrong to hit your relatives or abuse them, so why is it ok for someone to rape someone in marriage. After marriage we don’t become one person otherwise they’d be no marriage issues.

[Le_Pakistan]

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@muqawwee123

Its a movie by Abbas-Mastan starring Kareena, where Priyanka seduce Akshay Kumar

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Oh ok. It’s a movie. My bad.

@pcormac2013

Really how common is this in Pakistan of male victim of rape to female. I can imagine male being victims of other males but not really females. Hairdresser turns robber into sex-slave ? RT News It happens in China. Chinese Woman ‘Rapes’ Man on Street in Chengdu - chinaSMACK

Finding out how commonly it happens will be a hard task. Because people don’t report it that much compared to male-to-female rape.

@pcormac2013

girls do face ridicule and humiliation. They get asked is it really rape because of clothes they are wearing and who they are with and What time. even if a girl is naked there is no justification. You don’t see guys in west having that thought on average street even if girls wear less. Rape is not taken seriously in subcontinent until recently. For us even marital rape is legal because how can a husband rape a wife right?

I know that. But still, in general people condemn it and are disgusted by it.
But males being raped by females is still more of a taboo, even in the western world. It is taken lightly, or as a joke everywhere.

[Le_Pakistan]

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@pcormac2013

I think under our current climate first we’ve got to stop female rapes in Pakistan, then male rapes by males and then male rapes by females.

Why in that order? With this you are implying yourself that a male being raped by women (or by other men) is not as wrong (or not as traumatizing) as when a female gets raped.

See, somehow unconsciously we make ourselves guilty of this attitude.

[Le_Pakistan]

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@ButtSb

I think this is a saazish by you to downplay the female rape victim’s predicament by swaying this discussion to male victims. Its not right :nono:

You got me there. Aiho hi mera maqsad si.

[Ghost14]

@pcormac2013:9754397

Sorry to distract Le Pakistan. I know you had noble intentions creating this thread. It’s an issue not discussed much. Abroad there are resources for male victims of rape. Not as many as there are for females and there should be increased amount for both abroad and in Pakistan.

I think under our current climate first we’ve got to stop female rapes in Pakistan, then male rapes by males and then male rapes by females.

Male on male rape occurs and there are victims. There is support out there. Lot of the time guys are too ashamed to speak up about it.
http://www.malesurvivor.org/index.htm
Male Survivors - Rape and Sexual Abuse Survivors Message Board and Chat Room
Male Sexual Assault | RAINN | Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network

Lol wth? Rape is rape sunshine, nobody gets preferential treatment because of their gender. Ironic that you are exhibiting the exact attitude which the thread is trying to discuss.

[TLK]

Waise really, biologically speaking, how can a female rape a man, assuming that rape actually means sexual intercourse where one partner is not ready?
In this case, the partner who is not ready needs to support an erection. It’s very hard (no pun intended) for men to have one when he is not ready.

[Ghost14]

Actually physical stimulation results in an erection and the even orgasm (for males and females) during rape. The principle being argued is consent, not stimulation.

[muqawwee123]

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This thread is dedicated to TS

[TLK]

@Ghost14:9754527

Actually physical stimulation results in an erection and the even orgasm (for males and females) during rape. The principle being argued is consent, not stimulation.

Aap ne yeah baat pehlay kyun nahi bataai?

[Le_Pakistan]

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@muqawwee: I was feeling awkward to give a reply, so I am glad Ghost did that.

But as you can read there are still misconceptions among people, and it is good to discuss it (and to educate) to clear those misconceptions.

[muqawwee123]

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Yes I’m all for this discussion. In morning, I read something about gang bangs being compared with Jiahad Al Nikah and now these all informative posts. Misconceptions should be removed :halo:

[pcormac2013]

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@Le_Pakistan

Why in that order? With this you are implying yourself that a male being raped by women (or by other men) is not as wrong (or not as traumatizing) as when a female gets raped.

See, somehow unconsciously we make ourselves guilty of this attitude.

no sorry i think i expressed it wrongly. All rapes are equally bad and should be treated harshly. I meant that since i am guessing there are more female rape victims it is more of a prevalent/common issue that would need more resources towards it.

[pcormac2013]

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@Ghost14

Lol wth? Rape is rape sunshine, nobody gets preferential treatment because of their gender. Ironic that you are exhibiting the exact attitude which the thread is trying to discuss.

no that wasn’t the intention. All rapes are equally bad regardless of gender. I meant that in terms of how common the types of rape are i believe male on female is most common which is why it is seen as a bigger issue in our society and there are more resources towards it.

[sweefs]

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@Ghost14

Actually physical stimulation results in an erection and the even orgasm (for males and females) during rape. The principle being argued is consent, not stimulation.

hi

[ButtSb]

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now this post is a perfect paradox…trying for consent or stimulation

[Ghost14]

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That’s not a paradox. The legal definition is consent lol.

[Ghost14]

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@sweet.i.f

hi

tries not to make eye contact

[pcormac2013]

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@Ghost14

tries not to make eye contact

Nooooo not the eye contact.Don’t do it Ghost. You will then get an insight into her soul. It will draw you in. That’s the first step.

Does the stimulation have to be physical or do you think it can be merely verbal and have similar effecr?

[el_topo]

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