Attitudes towards male rape victims

27 Male Survivors Of Sexual Assault Quoting The People Who Attacked Them

And where the rapist happens to be a woman.

Some quotes from the survivors:

‘Men can’t get raped’
‘How can a girl rape a guy?’
‘Man up’
‘You are a guy, you can’t say no to a girl like me’

I was reading a discussion on facebook about it where some people agreed that women can’t rape men.

People tend to make jokes when they hear about a woman raping a man. Making fun of the guy. Calling him lucky. Not taking it serious.

What to do about this attitude? How to take away the taboo and make it more discussable? What makes people think like this?

A male rapist we can castrate. But what punishment does a female serial rapist deserve?

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Aitraaz… shaniwaar 8 baje kaval Set Max per :cobra:

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Btw, exactly this kind of attitude, matlab responding jokingly.

You would never dare to say this in a thread about female victims. Right?

(genuinely asking, not to mock)

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The biggest problem is that a lot of guys themselves won’t admit girls can rape because of ego issues . This affects justice. Most male rape is usually by guys with power who are usually married . Guys won’t even consider themselves victims

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why did you open this thread?

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Same reason why others open one.

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Is it really on then? I dont know if Aitraaz is really rape because though she initiated by seducing him he did reciprocate till he remembered his wife. If that is rape then lot of people even myself can say I’ve had it attempted on me

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Oh sorry muqawwee, I thought you were joking :frowning:
Didn’t know it was an actual tv programme.

Sorry.

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girls do face ridicule and humiliation. They get asked is it really rape because of clothes they are wearing and who they are with and What time. even if a girl is naked there is no justification. You don’t see guys in west having that thought on average street even if girls wear less. Rape is not taken seriously in subcontinent until recently. For us even marital rape is legal because how can a husband rape a wife right?

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I think this is a saazish by you to downplay the female rape victim’s predicament by swaying this discussion to male victims. Its not right :nono:

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yes you are right. This attitude is common and we observed it when news of a waiter being raped by some aunties in posh area of Karachi spread a few years back

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Dude..that comment is going to make you the new fav of the ladies here :stuck_out_tongue: Forget about me we’ll need a bachelor show just for you. it needed to be liked.

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Its a movie by Abbas-Mastan starring Kareena, where Priyanka seduce Akshay Kumar :bummer:

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Really how common is this in Pakistan of male victim of rape to female. I can imagine male being victims of other males but not really females. Hairdresser turns robber into sex-slave ? RT News It happens in China. Chinese Woman ‘Rapes’ Man on Street in Chengdu - chinaSMACK

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Its copy of the movie ‘disclosure’ ..michael douglas and demi moore :rotfl:

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Bechara Akshay. She should get maximum punishment.
Priyanka was Akshay’s ex gf who left him for career. Then he gets married to Kareena and gets job working for Priyanka. In course of work she tries to seduce him and he falls into it but stops when he remembers his wife. He says he can’t do affair and she files for rape.
What happens in the courtroom forms the story. Worth a watch Le Pakistan.

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Really? damn i knew there had to be a copy. I guess its been desified though for the audience.
What about that movie where this girl likes a wife’s devoted husband and the wife sells her husband for a night only to have him fall in love with that girl.

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Reminds me Tulsi Virani giving lecture to her son for marital rape :eek: kia kharaafaat dikhate the ye sitare wale channel ke drame

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Really? damn i knew there had to be a copy. I guess its been desified though for the audience.
What about that movie where this girl likes a wife’s devoted husband and the wife sells her husband for a night only to have him fall in love with that girl./QUOTE]

Indecent proposal, woody allen, the bradford guy…i forget the actress.

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Sorry to distract Le Pakistan. I know you had noble intentions creating this thread. It’s an issue not discussed much. Abroad there are resources for male victims of rape. Not as many as there are for females and there should be increased amount for both abroad and in Pakistan.

I think under our current climate first we’ve got to stop female rapes in Pakistan, then male rapes by males and then male rapes by females.

Male on male rape occurs and there are victims. There is support out there. Lot of the time guys are too ashamed to speak up about it.
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