Re: Attending the nikah of your own mother (or father)
thats true but who gives a damn about society…our parents emotional happiness is more important (at least to me) than this messed up society…i shun a that tries to get in the way of my parents’ happiness…
everyone should watch the movie “mere baap pehle aap” its on this subject starring paresh rawal, genalia d’souza and akshaye khanna… akshaye khanna is in love with genalia but he finds out that his widowed father is in love with a lady too…so he arranges for his father’s wedding… and as soon as genalia’s dad finds out that akshaye khanna is arranged his own father’s (paresh rawal) wedding …he says to akshaye khanna that he has to choose between his own marriage and his dad’s marriage… if akshaye khanna wants to marry his daughter he must cancel his dad’s wedding …akshaye khanna chooses to sacrifice his own love and marry his dad off… the day of his dad’s marriage his gf’s father asks him why he did this and akshaye khanna said because my father did everything in his power for me and he gave up a lot in his life to make sure i had everything and im not so selfish that i will put my own happiness above my father’s…i love ur daughter and would still love to marry her if you would agree but no one is more important to me than my father…
that movie made me cry and i totally agree with this sentiment anything ofr my parents happiness…because they would do anything for mine…and i cudnt be happy if i knew my parent was lonely and sad