at what stage will he introduce me to his family?

[Mirch]

Re: at what stage will he introduce me to his family?

@Sara516

When you’re pregnant.

Yep

@Reha

He IS hiding something from you…he has no intention of marrying you.

Im sorry but you need to move on. You’ve been warned and told. You’d be much better off using this time recover from him and move on with your life.

Always remember one thing: if a man really wants to marry you…he will make it happen. Its obvious he isnt scared of his family because he didnt take their permission when he dated you. Now, he needs all this time and effort to just get his parents to meet you? Right.

Totally agree.

@catwomen

As for leaving him…this has been done…but we keep coming back to each other…he says that there is a reason for this…he haas feelings but marriage iss a huge decision to make and needs to be 110 per cent sure…this I can understand…he is not the type of person to use people…and I believe som intention is there as he talks about things such as wwhat our kids would look like etcmThe majority of his family are in pakistan…he lives with extended family brothers and one cousin…says things take time…I did google this before posting here and a lot of posts stated a muslim man will not introduce you to family untill he is 100 per cent sure thaat this is the girl he is marrying…and yes I know at the moment he is thinking clearly about his decisions…his family…from wwhat I understand do not mind who he marries…he has cousins married to polish etc and has said if there is a future for us his family would love me…so I am thinking it really has something to do with the strong views of no dating before marriage etc

If he is such a good Muslim he would have already sent his parents to your parents and have sought your hand in holy matrimony. Dating in Islam is has its own limitations , Islam does not allow a long romance before marrying someone.
If he is daring enough to be dating you he should be daring enough to take you to his parents.
He is being totally hypocrite about this.