At what age did you get married..

[Shikra]

Re: At what age did you get married..

@Hum_Hain_Lajawab

Both AE and Aahmed make a very good point. Another problem with us is that elders keep on treating children as if they were still children even if they are mature and grown up. A person is young until he gets married. A person who will get married on 23rd is considered young until the 23rd and suddenly becomes “wise and grown up” on the 24th? This doesnt make sense. I think children should be treated like grown ups when they are grown ups and a person should marry asap.

I agree with AE. Sometimes circumstances add to ur maturity as well :k:

Very true, it PISSES me off when parents do that with Children. My ammi does that to me and I react and that’s why we get in arguments because I don’t let her treat me like a baby. On the other hands, she treats my brothers like kids and they let her, she goes to them more because they let her treat them like little kids and I guess they like it. She is not doing them a favor by this “laad”, in fact, she is not letting them grow up and get responsible. To give one example, I wake up with the first ring of the alarm but my brothers don’t. They sleep without any worries because they know mom will get up to wake them up, so why worry that we’ll be late to work or for an interview?

@glamorous

your married

Yes, and she’s also a gupshup member “Mrs. Shikra”…so don’t say something that will make her eat you alive