Ok, I’m with my two friends just hanging out and listening to the music, Tonia was out on the dance floor with a guy dancing, I was watching the handbags (may as well, won’t dance with other guys) when I start talking to the woman next to me. Let’s call her A. She seems real nice, she singing a bit and swaying and telling me about her college courses. A guy comes up, takes her to the dance floor. I watch a bit and she’s rubbing all up and down him.
Well, she’s single, her life, right?
So I look for Tonia and she’s now talking to the guy she was dancing with. Keesha is in the bathroom, so another song starts and I wait. A comes back to the table next to us and we start talking again, I am really starting to like her she’s smart, she’s nice, she’s pretty (not a big deal, but it helps). So, I’m debating giving her my cell number.
Just then the guy she was dancing with comes over and kisses her and says he will call tomorrow and goodnight.
Tonia came up and I introduced her to A. We are all talking again when this women let’s it slip that she is getting married in two weeks. Me, clueless as usual, I say to her, oh he was pretty good-looking and seemed real nice. Well she laughs and says “heehee no, that’s not him, I just met him now”.
Ok, just when I think I have seen or heard everything, some idiot reminds me how clueless I really am. What is wrong with these people?
I know it is three days later but this bothers me and I figured I would share the shock value.
Why were you shocked? You met a random girl in a club, she's getting married in 2 weeks but not with the guy she was dancing with, she just met him that night and danced with him on one or two songs and then the guy left. Nothing happened. What's the question/concern here? It's her life and she's not your friend, if she's ok with it, let her be.
Shikra - Yeah, I know, but sometimes people surprise me. It was a bit more than a couple of dances and he left, but oh well. Just leave it at people surprise me.
Minah, Minah, Minah....... YOU were at a club ...HOW SHOCKING.
Im sure there is is somebody, a govenment dept or a local religious body I can report you to.
I feel that this terrible scenario you witnessed was a sent to you by up above to serve as a warning to you.
Thou shalt not go out with people called "Tonia" and "Keesha" or even "aye"(i mean what kind of names are they?...dont you have freinds with normal names like, erm... Jenny or Sarah or Engelbert?)
Lazy - what is a normal name anyways, geesh? Look at yours --> Lazy_Daizy - not even Daisy and lazy to boot. And me a veggie sandwhich :(
EDIT: where else can I strut my stuff, woman? We went to dinner, a movie, and just kept going, the club was doing an oldies night, hence my ability to get in the door, so the people were mostly about my age.
lol. lady...it is D A I S Y.... go have a closer look, its got an "S" in it not a "Z"
never mind.... I think the shock has still got to you.
and as for the veg sandwich... did you ever clarify.
I havent got over the fact that you went to a CLUB, I mean shouldnt you be at home doing married women type things like cleaning the cooker exracter hood with a toothbrush!
Mommy - I did and I made my bed, something I never do. You never let me have any fun pout
EDIT: I do the weirdest things when I am bored, lol. On Saturday I tried my hand at the aunty job with sara and naved, and brought Kaleem out of his shell talking about evil eyes and telling sara to pray. It was a wild ride......
OH YEAH - now I see it Daisy, geesh, my eyes are fine, just a speck o'dust
Anyways, Minah, you should not put stress on your self,… you will see all types of mammals… if you start spending 3 days each, then rest will not get any attention from you…please think about others na…
Once apon a time I trusted you and extended a hand in an attempt to reach out in the spirit of helpfulness, in the spirit of friendship, with nothing in my head but to help a frail, dainty, feeble-minded old man and the man walked all over me. Talking about grandkids and the computer and his lack of ability to manipulate said machine.
Then - wandering about aimlessly - I stumble apon him instructing someone on why the dates on some id's were a certain way in very technical terms. That was a start of the 3 day shocks.
Since then, I have been a lonely and untrusting woman. It is a burden to bear.
:) but thank you, I will think of the other animals now :)
O maiee Gawd… can’t you just forget that Minah ji ?
By God… I really feel cryiing
Ok… I am ok now… let me give you the same example…
If you continue trusting people, then you will get only shocks…you need to start ‘ignoring’ people in life, … else you will be making your own life miserable… by thinking for others… This will be my sincere advice to you, plz stop thinking for others.
Really… on this planet earth… no one is sincere… no matter what you do for them, there are chances that at end you may get nothing… you will be with empty hands and people whom you have helped will be gone far away and won’t be looking at the back if some one is missing…
I always think for other, always did help no matter if I had to lose something… but I never cared for my self and about my life… I went all the way and helped and took care others…but unfortunately, when I was in need, no one was there for me…(axcept my family)… now I have lost trust on friends at all… for the reason that there is nothing you can call a friend…
I would say, you Just start living for yourself, for your family, for kids and hubby… please stop thinking and killing your time for others… no one from outside will come forward and help when we need… these animals are cruel… they are just greedy … bla bla
Sorry If I don’t make any sense… and I again apologies for that mistake…
Actually I was really in shock, when Minah told that she was shocked after revealing Dada Abba…:-(… and for that reason I was really shaky to converse her again, really, I am serious…
But don’t you think Minah ji might have learned example from those twofold intensions? …now I guess I should start missing that cute helping Minah from now on…
