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I knew putting that pic on profile was inviting trouble, I will have to just wear a burqa now, there's no other way.
DAISY - I did NOT tell sara to pray. See, Kaleem wandered in when I was in full aunty swing and told sara to do "sadqa" because I was doing something like an evil eye. He told her to pray. I think that means I was a flop as an aunty, what do you think.
Dada Abbaa - Daisy fell for it psst - she a mite older and maybe more gullible Treat her nicely :)
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Daizy_waisy,
Sheesh I didn’t tell this to get an special treatment or to make any one depressing…
I am blissful … and to be honest… I really don’t believe in friends and friendship…
here we can be good chatter, some appreciative crowd and gossiper etc…khair…
I am being emotional I guess, I should visit café now, who is up for Second cup in café?
and yeah She sounded so cute in that thread really ...lol
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Isn't that normal for these people? E.g. guys with their bachelor parties.
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Sarah - it was a dance club, not a strip club.
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Yeah I know, I was referring to your being shocked that the girl would act like this when she is about to get married to some other guy. Guys do it too with their bachelor parties.
Pathetic behavior.
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Oh - sorry, misunderstood, my fault...
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Let A have some fun. Dancing is OK, just plain clean college fun. However, giving the guy her number and leading him on doesnt seem too good considering she's getting married soon.
(BTW this opnion of mine only applies to American girls, cuz thats their culture. For Paki girls, they should stay home and do purdah)
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lussssssiiiii - If you build a thread, they will come :) It's just not the same without you, now I can sleep well tonight :)
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Lussi I hope your wife-to-be doesn't hang out at clubs at night, gives some guy her number, leaves, puts on her "purdah" and comes home to you :D
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Lussi, what do the American girls of Pak origin do?
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…unless her husband doesn’t mind(care)…
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lazy - you know what he believes - they are just Americans and cannot think of holding a candle to the ever so pristine Paki girl.
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Maybe he's (lussi) right. Most girls in Pakistan never have the opportunity to go out because their parents are so strict, it's mostly only the really rich families who don't keep such a close eye on their children. In my family, everyone is very strict. In Pakistan, my cousins never go out except for school, they never recieve phone calls from guys, are never in touch with them because their parents make sure of it. In the West it's harder, from when you're very young, you are exposed to a much less strict culture and your parents, no matter how strict they are, are never in control of it. In Pakistan, much of the rebellion you see is of the crime and drug sort, no middle class girl going to a middle class school will go and take off her shalwar kameez and put on a mini skirt, because that's impossible, the atmosphere doesn't allow her to. Here, it's so easy. And so many girls do it though their parents are extremely strict.
In that sense, because they don't have opportunity to, only a few upper class girls in Pakistan are able to be promiscuous. Here, haha, it's common, expected, and if you don't do it, you shall be rejected.
And really, think about it logically, how many people in Pakistan are from the upper classes? Hardly any, the overwhelming majority is dirt poor and lower middle class. In the West, most Pakistani families are not poor and their children go to public schools where they are exposed to a culture much different from their own. And generalizations be damned, because political correctness can be a bitch, and it is a fact that more girls go "bad" in the West than in Pakistan.
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Im confused as to the direction this thread is taking, I thought it was all about that Shameless Minah's visit to the CLUB
you know the kind of place
they have alcohol there
they have MEN there
they have MEN and WOMEN dancing
and ALL the people wear SHORT skirts.... its true I saw it on tv
AND they give each other their phone numbers
this proves my point, Minah is shameless and must be shunned...
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you should be shunned too, even mentioning the word "CLUB", which i thought was a chocolate biscuit prior to reading this thread! by entering this thread you have shamed yourself too Lady daisy..tsk tsk
women these days
you made me sin too! but im sure Allah knows im just here to tell you off..so im all good
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awwww daisy girl, why shun me?? 
We had sooo much fun bouncing from general to cafe and back, then having coffee to recover. I admit burning the napkin was a bit much, but it added a bit of flavor to the coffee, right??
I didn’t drink, I didn’t dance, I DID look and I wore a ummmm skirt that was, uh, well, it was a skirt 
But I tried to be good and even tried to make friends…
I would miss you daizy waizy if you shunned me
EDIT: YEAH - what Miss_Mohabbat said too ::nahnah:
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Did I mention that I would mind to acknowledge a friendship offer from a shunned lady? Please say no and I will suggest reading this message!
Please behave to my new friend Lazy Daisy flowers
Minnah ji,
Two old and gullible can make at least one new and strong friendship… don’t you forget olden is golden…:-p
ps: sorry Lazy I wrote your nick wrong :-(
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Dada - can ask you if you are married? How old are you? Can you live in England?
Daisy - if you marry this man, I shall fly a plane to England (asleep, mind you, but flying) just to hug you and maybe kick Dada here in the shins for being mean to me (then of course, I'll act like he's somewhat ok, but he must be in pain!). Just for you Daisy :)
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don’t you know TV is Haraam!! :nono: Ms. Daisy please go purify yourself before you point a finger at our resident Minah Aunty 