At least Im married! *snooty*

[PyariCgudia]

@Gaia

This story is a little too extreme but the massage is all the same. When we have sabr it truly is rewarded. There are two ways of making decisions in life. Either you take things in your own hands or you leave ALL up to ALLAH. Most of us like to take things into our own hands and make a better life for ourselves, nothing wrong with that as long as the decisions we make are parallel to our religion. However, there are many people who are incapable of doing such things. I personally know of many. They’re** incapable** of standing up for themselves. So ALLAH rewards them for their sacrifice.

One example:

I know a woman, who got married many years ago, to a man who was completely abusive towards her. He cheated, took all her kids away, etc… But the last draw for him came when he had the guts to get married again to another woman through the wishes of his older sister and parents.

Even after all that, she took her pretty little time to fully get herself ready for divorce. But before her having to take any drastic step
-the guy was forced to get a divorce from the other woman, who turned out to be a complete b*tch
-his parents got divorced at the age of 80
-his older sister’s husband told her he will also be getting married to someone younger.

And now this man worships his wife, and she can care less while he runs after her like a little puppy.

This almost gives me the chills, that this woman didn’t have to lift a finger and ALLAH made her pathway to freedom so clear and open.

when i was young I found such women so annoying, but now i have so much respect for them, as I could never do this myself, but I wish i had just an ounce of sabr like her.

Well, but that’s a vicious circle of reasoning. So, since some people are innately incapable of standing up for themselves, they get a reward…and now that message is taught to all these women…and that causes women who would otherwise have been capable now to also feign incapability…

It’s one thing to have 3 retards born in a village, and God gives them a free ride to Heaven, because they didn’t know any better…

It’s another when you tell everyone in the village - look, these mentally slow kids are all going to heaven…so…why don’t all of you start behaving like them? And maybe you’ll go to heaven too.

Doesn’t make much sense, does it?