At least Im married! *snooty*

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@diamond321

The above was one of the things that I thought alot before I took the step and I still do think about it ! But when I look at myself , my parents were not divorced , I came from a good educated family but did that enable me to find a good rishta for myself ? and it happens to many many girls who came from good families & whose parents were not divorced yet they ended up in bad marriages. I think it’s all naseeb , for all the daughters including mine I believe that they will get the man who so ever is written for them by Allah. If it is meant to happen it will happen.

On the other hand I know a woman whose parents were divorced , mother remarried and I think dad remarried too she was raised by one of her relative. She got married and she is soo happily married , her husband treats her like a queen. She has even become a grand mother now and all her siblings are also happily married and well settled.

I know a girl…parent’s are divorced. No, not even divorced. Dad just walked away from the family and never looked back. She got married and has two children.

I know another woman whose parents are divorced. She got married…then divorced herself. And is now remarried again.

Life does not end for either the parents or their children when a divorce occurs. So, Diamond, (easier said than done) but don’t worry about your daughter and her marriage. She’s just an adorable baby right now, enjoy her childhood, it passes by so quickly. The most important thing for your daughter…and for ANY woman…is not marriage…but to develop strong character and confidence. Without which, it’s difficult to handle a marriage and other challenges in life.