At least Im married! *snooty*

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@Reha

At our mosque, there is a class every Saturday morning held by a really sweet lady. She takes us through the Qur’an, explains every passage and the significance behind it.

One morning before the class started, someone asked a question about divorce. Aunti began to explain how Talaq is one of the most disliked things in Islam and isnt encouraged unless its a very dire situation. She proceeded to give the fine example of her next door neighbor:

Married woman who was beaten by her husband every night in front of her 4 children. Every night the whole neighborhood heard her screaming and every morning she pretended like nothing happened. One day, someone asked her why she doesnt leave her abusive husband and she answered: “mein duniya ko kaise moon dikhaungi talaq-shuda hoke. Kamaskam mein abhi sar utha ke ye to kehsakti hoon ke mera shohar hai aur mein shaadi-shuda hoon”.

Later on, her husband passed away and all of her kids became successful professionals who now treat her so well she cannot complain.

Aunti said: see how her perseverance paid off? In the end, Allah swt gave her so much happiness she didnt know what to do with it.

I think it’s LUCK/DESTINY that her husband died before her. It could have been the other way round too then people must have said “seedhi janat main gayee hogi” but if that would have happened to phir husband kay liye kiya kahtay , usko kis cheez ka reward milla hota in the form of well settled children.

RV has already said everything I wanted to say.

Why is sabar always expected from a woman and not from a man ?