Assumptions/Rumours

What’s the craziest/most infuriating rumour someone in yoru family or friends, has ever spread abt you, or the dumbest assumptions people have made abt u? What about assumptions you’ve made? Have they been totally wrong or totally right?

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an assumption that my mum would re marry when my my dad passed away :rolleyes: :mad:

yeah it was verryyyyy wrong…

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since my immediate family used to live ( in karachi) far from the extended relatives , hence most of the time our relatives have under-estimated us which is purely due to lack of communication , most of them consider that i’ve some kinda superiority complex + dimagh kharab :lahol: so at times they do/ say unbelievable stuff just to knock me (or my siblings) down :smilestar: ,as a result sometimes i do freak out but usually stay positive & enjoy their attempts :khumar: , but do curse them deep down in my heart , crappy relatives really sucks:aj:, am i the only one whose going through this ?

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am still in the bubble so not aware of any rumours.
wats ur story sara?

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Lets c…among family, that I"m having a baby and that I had a fight with my husband adn that’s why we’re not living together just found out this today! :smack:
On here? that everytime I say something nice abt hubby/in-laws, its coz hubby’s reading it :rolleyes:
In freinds, I’ can’t recall anything…

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awww :hugz:

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hmmm... the fact that my TOTALLY arranged-marriage fiance' had actually been my boyfriend before someone in the family hooked us up and i saw him for the first time.... :S

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^lol oops yea that happened to me too. It was funny because last time i had interacted with him was when i was 14 years so it (the rumour)never caught fire.

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one lady claimed that we had turned nikah only event into a ruqsatti because we had done it already and begum was expecting. I found out about the allegations much later.

my wedding was supposed to be only nikah with a ruqsatti 6 months later. As we got close to the nikah date we realized that with my sister expecting, dad's interntional projects and other things we would not be able to do a ruqsatti in 6 months, and it would then be atleast 9-12 months that we could plan for a ruqsatti, and since the whole family is goign to be there lets do ruqsatti anyways.

PS: This was a lady who tried to hook me up with her niece and I said no just 6 months before that

PS2: oh yeah the allegation was completely baseless.

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oh and ahhaha I forgot another crazy lady rumour. she was one of my khalas neighbour.

claimed that one of my cousin and I were going to go rape a female cousin while another dude kept a lookout.

the truth

at some large dawat in my teens at my khalas place. 2 of my cousins and I wanted to attack the biryan directly from the daig rather than get it from the buffet line. but we did not want to get caught attacking the daeg, so 2 of us asked a third one to keep a lookout while we go in and get some biryani.

Now we did not know that one of my cousins was in the kitchen loading up some serving platters.

but some lady who was eavesdropping assumed that is what it was all about.

low class people..

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^ :hayaa:

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hahahhahahaahahahaa @ mr. fraudia

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OMG! Ghatiya laug!

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Aunties are sooooo evil... hmm, so is it only the aunties that do this? Allhamdulilah our family has been free of 'rumors', so I wouldnt know.

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That I am a lesbian.

Because I dont/didnt have a boyfriend.

Who thought this in the past? Coworkers, etc.

I'd like to officially state that I am not a lesbian.

It didnt infuriate me. I found it funny.

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^ me too :hehe:

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O crap! it was a rumor :halo:

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hawwwwwwww. grin

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I still live in the bubble too!!..and of the ones I have heard are:
Usually I have the ones that I am a total snobby /snooty person!!..from college up till now..(freaks)…wat can I do if I have a unchaa naak…:cb:…literally:cb::snooty:

BTW I have tried extra hard to change that perception to the point that I thought this is just not me…so I have stopped…Let em think watever they think:D..rolls of my backnow:snooty:…:smiley:

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One of my cousin told me that too that the people at high school were spreading rumors like that…I guess basically its damned if u do and Damned if u dont:bummer: