Asking Women/Girls out for "Coffee".

Well “Coffee” is just an excuse to ask someone out to get to know. Anyways, do you women take seriously if a guy asks you out for coffee to get to know you..even as lets say as friends?.

Depends how cute the guy is ;-)

Hmm depends how he asks - if you were already friends and he asks you for coffee you wouldn't think twice, but if he was making the come hither eyes, you may just want make sure you know where all the exits are (to run away)

Hehe!

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uff mujh se kabhi kisi lerkay ne coffee ka nehi poocha....hmmmm..

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Of course yar, i am not saying if we men ask in creepy way.

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oYe! tum Canada main rahti ho..i am surprised hamara aamna samna nahi hua..werna tumhai bhi pochta coffee per. :p

I was asked recently for a cheeky coffee - I cheekly refused. Lol

If a friend asked - then you wouldn't read much into it.

If a guy you fancied asked you would probably act all - deer struck in the headlights - for a better term.

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what the heck is cheeky coffee????

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Coffee IS asking out. My ex asked me out for coffee to get to know me. I had another guy recently ask me out "to get to know me", but when I asked for clarification (both times), they got embarrassed and confessed that they liked me.

If it's strictly as friends, then it's just friends hanging out. I have had those too. Just make sure it's clear that you are not "asking them out".

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Let me ask my fellow men: How many times you were turned down when asking nice and decent girl out???

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I have to agree with you. Most of the time, ppl ask out if they fancy each other. However, the clarification should be made.

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nah nah, jub tumhe pata chalta na ke mein kitni ghunda type hoon aur do lerkon ko school mein chapair maar chuki hoon, tu tum bhi nehi poochtay..

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Never, I haven't asked anyone in a romantic sense. I have been asked for coffee though, the turn down is always gentle: I don't date (so its not YOU).

I say give it a go, step like a man (confidence), she says no, whats your loss?

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@H. Queen. Yani. Phoolan devi type ki ho? :p

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^hahaha nehi nehi...mein tu BOHAT NICE hoon...bats eyelashes

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Well bhai mairay. I am not at all worried about anything. I probably got turned down 4 times in last 2 years. :p. And was able to make friends probably more now. The most recent one..i asked out (before ramadan :p) was this girl from Algeria who is doing her PHD. Never the less, we became excellent friends now.

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Nahi! nice nahi ho tum. larkon ko chapairain marti pherti ho.

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lol, they deserved it!..

aur woh tu highschool ki baat hai..ub mein nehi maarti thappar kisay ko bhi.

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Now the coast is clear. So.. can we go to star-bucks to try cinnamon chai latte?? :p

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Exactly. Sounds like you're getting your shine on :D

Also try to include hookah spots if you're rolling maghrebein. Its ok, you don't need to smoke -- get some fruit juice or something. She'll appreciate it and you'll look smooth.

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gaaah, you ruined it for me. Now i can never say no guy ever asked me for coffeeee...

you almost got me shocked there, that happens to be my fav drink..i drink it every friday as a treat..lol (umm you dont know me right?..lol toronto happens to be one of those cities where you can easily say "woah, we live in a smallll world", you've never tried it before? If you haven't, then let me just tell you..second cup is way better than star bucks...lol