asking out a guy

samina_mm · May 23, 2007, 1:10am

how do guys feel about a girl asking them out. do they like being chased or do they want to be the ones doing the chasing?

Mr_Fraudia · May 23, 2007, 1:31am

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depends on the guy and the girl

TeenDabbyWala · May 23, 2007, 2:42am

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and he will go and tell all his friends this, and you know what all of them will think?

Mrs_Saieen · May 23, 2007, 2:45am

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^ That shes desparate?

From what I've heard, guys (at least desi guys) will consider it insecure and pathetic for a girl to go after a guy..... this is of coruse based on general consensus taht I saw overhere...

Mr_Fraudia · May 23, 2007, 2:48am

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as i said it depends on the guy and the girl.

AnGeL_EyEs · May 23, 2007, 2:51am

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it really depends on the guy....each guy is different.

If he is the kind of guy who has played the field and what not....then he might like it if a girl asks him out.

If he is a traditional kind of guy .....then he may not like the girl asking him out.

and if he is conservative....then he wont like asking you out nor will he want you to ask him out.

Vedic_Intellect · May 23, 2007, 2:52am

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as fraudia said.. depends on the guy and the girl..

Mr_Fraudia · May 23, 2007, 2:56am

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as vedic intellect said that I said
it depends on the guy and the girl

PS: and oh yeah, how its handled as well

Aish · May 23, 2007, 3:34am

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Then guys should stop saying they like confident girls Omg and women are complicated? puhleeaasseee

bhenjee · May 23, 2007, 3:55am

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hmmm.. just dont do it how they want it.. it'll definitely keep them coming for more!

Khumar · May 23, 2007, 4:05am

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I say Allah ka naam lo aur keh do. Why wait forever for him to say it?

bhenjee · May 23, 2007, 4:13am

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right... so she can be embarassed for the rest of her life everytime she meets up with him??

and more importantly... girls are emotional. she'll be heart-broken (if she cares a lot for him and he doesn't reciprocate those feelings). guys would prolly cringe inside.. but they tend to forget abt it sooner. AND, guys hav all the time in the world to mend broken hearts and move on from past relationships... girls DONT!

^^ it's prolly redundant in all its context.. but eventually this could happen!

im just stating out the hazards of a girl blatantly askin out a guy...

Khumar · May 23, 2007, 4:21am

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think about the consequences of never asking him out? for the rest of her life she will be going...What If? the what ifs are a lot more scarring than a few days or months of embarassment. atleast if she gets rejected, which i mean who knows she might not...she's thinking about asking a guy after she got some signals or signs that he might feel a teeny tiny bit like her, she will be more clear. he will get over it. she will get over it. end of story.

besides she won't be hitting on him. she's just gonna like ask him out politely...in a girlish charm way.

Monk · May 23, 2007, 4:43am

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never ever do that
unless you know the guy for years ,and you two have very deep understanding.

FrozenFire · May 23, 2007, 4:57am

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happened to me once..girl asking me out..

Khumar · May 23, 2007, 4:59am

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and?

Aish · May 23, 2007, 5:00am

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Whats the worse that could happen? hes gonna say no. In that case, be like, just KIDDING

Shoor · May 23, 2007, 5:10am

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for the fifth time in the thread, it depends on the guy and girl.

it's an absolutely individual thing. people do crazy things when in love, what's just asking him about it?

that's what im saying.

Mr_Fraudia · May 23, 2007, 5:33am

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errr please give credit where its due ahem

Shoor · May 23, 2007, 6:32am

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Mr. Fraudia, it was indeed you, who first thought along those lines.