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if I'm going to visit my parents then I don't need anyone's permission !
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OMG... This thread turned out to be sooo funny. Both the sides (who support asking for permission and who don't) are right in their own way.
As per some hadiths, women should ask for husband's permission. But then men should also fulfil their full responsibilities, providing her separate living, providing her house help (since the wife is not required to do house chores etc). Thus, if both husband and wife follow Islam VERY STRICTLY, only then we can expect the wife to 'ask' for permission for her husband in these matters.
Since both husband and wife tend to ignore **many of the guidelines Islam provides and tend to live their lives as per their liking and views, when some women don't accept that they need to ask for their husbands permissions, its **ok. If they have such an understanding with their husbands, this shows that things are working well between them.
But Islamically, women should ask for their husband's permission. I repeat, the husbands should also behave like a true Islamic husband and follow all the guidelines provided by Islam if he wants his wife to follow all the Islamic guidelines.
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And if the man doesn't deem it necessary that his wife ask his permission every time she leaves the house?
My mother goes grocery shopping, goes for her driving lessons, goes to work daily, goes to get a haircut...she doesn't 'ask' my dad every time she does any of those things. She tells him where she's going and my dad does not have a problem with it. But according to Life1 princesses, that makes my mom a poor mother and wife right? She's hellbound right? My dad is a bad husband right?
In that case, it's not required if you dad doesnt want to be asked or already knows of your mom's plans.
Its just unnecessary drama...a reason to argue and fight when there probably wasnt one to begin with.
Lekin yahi to auraton ke kaam hein...bila vajay ke dramay.
You asked me a question and i answered it. Surprisingly you chose to ignore it and go on with you bhashan. Easy way out! Just like most women like ;).
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I wouldn't ask for permission just like he wouldn't need mine. I'll inform him so he's not worried.
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When i get married.. i would like to take permission from him with the expectations that he wouldn't say NO :p.
But seriously i don't think its a big Ego thing.. giving him some respect by asking his permission.
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but WHY is there a need to ask permission ???????
I would never ask for permission. Inform : YES !!!!!
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it may vary from family to family, you can't generalize this subject.
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Islamically, a wife must ask her husband for permission before she goes out. I guess it stops the couple from having arguments over certain places where the husband will not be happy to let his wife go. I would tell my husband where I am going (telling - not asking 
), and if he objected to that, then he’d better have some valid reasons.
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Hey maybe I am wrong.
but i thought islamically a woman should ask permission to leave the property if the property is OWNED by the husband. If there is a womans share of money in the property and has equal or more ownership she does not need to ask permission.
My uncle is an Alim and i remember him discussing this with my cousin when she was getting married.
I may be wrong.
I will always inform my husband before going out and make sure it does not clash with plans, there is a difference between ' hey i am just going out for a quick lunch with my friends, is that cool?' and 'please sir may i meet my friends?'
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Just FYI, before leaving home for work this morning, I gave permission to my wife to breath. Jannati aadmi hoon main jannati… 
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Other husbands should learn how to be jannati from you 
Re: Asking husband's permission....
Hey maybe I am wrong.
but i thought islamically a woman should ask permission to leave the property if the property is OWNED by the husband. If there is a womans share of money in the property and has equal or more ownership she does not need to ask permission.
uh what? how does that even make sense, what does property gotta do with this?!
you better get the details from your alim uncle cuz otherwise this is really confusing.
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You asked me a question and i answered it. Surprisingly you chose to ignore it and go on with you bhashan. Easy way out! Just like most women like ;).
Its not a bhashan - sounds like you watch a lot of Bollywood? Its reality.
I dont know anyone who does the whole "mujhse poochay baghair agar ghar se qadam bahir nikala to tangain tor dunga" ;)
Most people dont make this an issue. And those who do are just drama-seekers who have nothing better to do. In which case, a job might be a good idea for them.
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we live away from both set of parents and we always visit them together..since our marriage, I have never been to my parents house without him and vice versa!!it works just perfect!!!
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I dont know anyone who does the whole "mujhse poochay baghair agar ghar se qadam bahir nikala to tangain tor dunga" ;)
Most people dont make this an issue. And those who do are just drama-seekers who have nothing better to do. In which case, a job might be a good idea for them.
I think any sane person can figure out whether its me or you who is into bollywood because its you who is coming up with these pathetic dialogues and not me.
Where did i say the wife was to ask in this filmy way for permission? or you just had to drag your bollywood phobia into this.
Maybe its time you find a job in bollywood cuz your other one seems to be doing no good.
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I think any sane person can see how upset you are right now. 
This is why desi people get high blood pressure!
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Why would i be upset over this? 
And shukria for your concern about high bp, don’t worry useless things don’t cause me any tension.
I just thought there was no need of going off track in a serious topic. That’s all. Feel free to disagree with me or the topic, that was the reason to make this topic to find out what people think about it.
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LOL!
I would say k ja apni marzi se rahi ho, waapis meri marzi se aana :halo:
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Uthh oyeee
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Fine , fine , if you do not like your husband so much that you do not want to spend your eternal life with him in jannat then do not ask his permission. 