Re: Asking husband's permission....
seriously plz have mercy on me
i would strip your 4 lines of irrelevant comments apart, but let me think about it
But we're not disagreeing with the fact that women follow Islam when it suits them. We're not saying it's the right thing to do. :) But kiddo, men do it too. You speak as if men are angels that can do no wrong. Every post of yours seems to be filled with you whining about how awful women are and how they're all going to hell. Why don't you acknowledge that men have their faults too?
Reha
July 20, 2011, 7:02pm
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My parents have been married for a long time and my mom has never asked my dad for permission.
She just tells him whats going on, they got invitations, etc.
Why does it have to be such a big deal? Poochne se aadmi mard thori banta hai.
Re: Asking husband's permission....
Why does it have to be such a big deal? Poochne se aadmi mard thori banta hai.
Aur Poochne se aurat bhi koi kam nahi ho jaayegi.
Reha
July 20, 2011, 7:09pm
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ShahreyarKhan:
if wives dont want to ask permission, fine
all of you who think asking permission is unacceptable, then what i understand is that it is not marriage rather a contract (i can do whatever i want you can do whatever you want, just dont interfere(?))
Its not that serious yaar. Itna serious agar hamesha rahogay to heart attack hojayega.
:k:
Reha
July 20, 2011, 7:10pm
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Sure. But what I dont get is…why is poochna necessary? Why is this even a topic?
Shaadi ki hai…naukar nahin laye hein bivi banakay and the husband is not meal ticket either.
Its possible to live a very happy life without all this drama.
STA
July 20, 2011, 7:11pm
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Marmalade:
But we’re not disagreeing with the fact that women follow Islam when it suits them. We’re not saying it’s the right thing to do.
Agree with Ashy and TLK.
Re: Asking husband’s permission…
Reha:
Sure. But what I dont get is…why is poochna necessary? Why is this even a topic?
Shaadi ki hai…naukar nahin laye hein bivi banakay and the husband is not meal ticket either.
Its possible to live a very** happy life without all this drama.**
And all this time I thought you were a woman…
STA
July 20, 2011, 7:15pm
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Reha:
Sure. But what I dont get is…why is poochna necessary? Why is this even a topic?
Shaadi ki hai…naukar nahin laye hein bivi banakay and the husband is not meal ticket either.
Its possible to live a very happy life without all this drama.
islamically, women are not obliged to do home stuff and even can refused to breast feed (milk) to baby.
in return, wife supposed to take permission from husband..
bas kah diya.
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STA:
Agree with Ashy and TLK.
What was the point of quoting my post?
TLK
July 20, 2011, 7:19pm
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just to make you feel ignored.
Re: Asking husband's permission....
Sure. But what I dont get is...why is poochna necessary? Why is this even a topic?
Because men are in charge of women. Just like parents are in charge of their kids.
Why can't this be a topic? Or are you guys open to only childish topic.
STA
July 20, 2011, 7:22pm
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i did not notice your post. i was reading from first page and adding them through multiqoute and you were mistakenly added. ignore it.
Re: Asking husband's permission....
Because men are in charge of women. Just like parents are in charge of their kids.
Why can't this be a topic? Or are you guys open to only childish topic.
And if the man doesn't deem it necessary that his wife ask his permission every time she leaves the house?
My mother goes grocery shopping, goes for her driving lessons, goes to work daily, goes to get a haircut...she doesn't 'ask' my dad every time she does any of those things. She tells him where she's going and my dad does not have a problem with it. But according to Life1 princesses, that makes my mom a poor mother and wife right? She's hellbound right? My dad is a bad husband right?
Niksik
July 20, 2011, 8:01pm
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^^ Hai rabba, ab itna bhi emotional naa ho jao :(
Every couple has their own dynamics...at the end of the day, just do what works for you and your spouse.
Re: Asking husband's permission....
^^ Hai rabba, ab itna bhi emotional naa ho jao :(
Every couple has their own dynamics...at the end of the day, just do what works for you and your spouse.
:p My point is pretty much what D6C made. These things aren't black and white. As long as it works for a certain couple (asking permission vs informing), I don't see why other users here have a problem with it.
Niksik
July 20, 2011, 8:13pm
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Because if other users don't have a problem, phir yeh thread aagey kaisey chalegi...batao batao :(?
Re: Asking husband's permission....
Because if other users don't have a problem, phir yeh thread aagey kaisey chalegi...batao batao :(?
Phir toh life1 hi nahi chalega :p
STA
July 20, 2011, 9:21pm
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Because if other users don't have a problem, phir yeh thread aagey kaisey chalegi...batao batao :(?
dhagay(thread) ko mazeed khencha jasakta hai. iss main kafi lachak(elasticity) hai.
Re: Asking husband’s permission…
whats all the rolay for?!
okkk ji some people ask for permission and some just inform… theekay??..
as for me (honest answer) …mai toh kabhi puch kar aur kabhi baata keh jati hu
Reha
July 21, 2011, 12:30am
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And all this time I thought you were a woman... :D
I AM a woman
Because men are in charge of women. Just like parents are in charge of their kids.
Why can't this be a topic? Or are you guys open to only childish topic.
Its just unnecessary drama...a reason to argue and fight when there probably wasnt one to begin with.
Lekin yahi to auraton ke kaam hein...bila vajay ke dramay.
