Re: asking certain questions
I was just comparing adding him onto a fake profile rather than adding him on the real profile since adding on real profile is not appropriate this time. I just said this when the idea of fb came up in the thread.
If you read my previous posts, you will notice that I was the one who advocated the idea of asking the guy directly but then people here would comment that the guy would not be telling the truth. The guy may or may not be telling the truth but the girl should observe him although what we observe is not true 100% and background checking will help to make the decision.