asking certain questions

[soconfused]

Re: asking certain questions

@NomiCA

soconfused…there is only so much you can do… at the end of the day…you have to take a ‘leap of faith’…if your family has done decent amount of background check…thats all that can be done really…

if he had done those things, i don’t think he would come forward and tell you…which means the following things:

You reject the rishta
His parents find out about his past activities
Other people find out about his ‘bad character’
He is basically shamed by everyone
His relation with his family is damaged a lot

now if he forsees all those things, do you think he will do it??

yeah that’s waht I was thinking. I would never wan to disclose such things especially in his case since it’s essentially a yes from their side if I’m okay with it at this point. iA it works out for the best. thanks for the advice!