yeah , chaan peen tho karlee hai, but my parents still need to talk to the relatives in pak since both of our families are well known in the area so we’ll see what comes out of that. my parents just wanted to wait until the guy and I talked a little since rishtaydaar have a tendency to make huge deals out of every rishta that comes so they want to wait. We’ve asked around here in the community and those that know the family hav enothing but nice things to say. From my interaction with his family (and the sister talks to me on FB) they seem normal and shareef. But my concern is that he hasn’t lived with his family very much so for all I know he could have some illegitimate child hidden away (k, Im kidding…but you get what I’m getting at).