Re: asking certain questions
um whoa. you don’t even know me, so calm down. I know about what the more modern lot (boys AND girls) because I’m not jahil and I don’t live in a cave. I went to school away from home and had to uphold my own values without my parents. That’s why I feel so strongly about it and that is also why (sadly) I have a hard time accepting that most guys/girls DONT engage in such behavior. I didn’t aur meray chand dost bhi shareef thay but we were the odd sheep in the entire paki community at school. People said we were backwards and closeminded for not wanting to go clubbing. And these comments came from people from families that were shareef and namazee. I have a good friend whose family values are the same as mine but her brother (who at first glancewould be someone that ANY shareef /khandaani family would DIE to have their daughter marry) drinks, parties, and is well known among the indian scene for sleeping around. THAT is my biggest concern. He’s had discussions with me in front of his sister about alcohol but his comments are always about how its haram and wrong etc.