Re: asking certain questions
The point is to let the guy know about the strict values of the girl and if he thinks they both differ alot in their values, perhaps the guy will back off. Majority of desi guy want a shareef girl irrespective of the number of girls he himself has slept around. But such conversation and discussion will lead to observing the behaviour of the guy. If he thinks there is nothing wrong in having relationships before marriage (emotional and physical), he might had been engaged in some activities previously. The point is to know his values and opnions and relate them to his activities. This conversation can only get started if the girl tells the guy about her own values.