Recently my friend was telling me about asian girls going out with black guys here in the UK (and vice versa).
Girls> How true is this? What do you think of this? If its true, whats wrong with asian boys? And what the hell do you see in them???
Boys> I think you guys might back me on this, but I believe that asian girls are just too damn good for black guys. (Its unthinkable!!!) Your comments?
Im sorry if this is offensive, but its been bugging me.
well i have to say, silly girls and silly boys. there's no point in doing this....cuz they're just end up hurting themselves cuz it's not going to work out due to the religious issue.
yazoo - the arab girls i know....dig their dark dark skin - for real. and probably their tough-looking appreance. and those girls probably decided to not to have an interest in asia (desi?) guyz anymore cuz they probably wanted to ....explore? more..
may i ask? what the hell do you mean by this?
men are men, be they dark of skin or black of heart. And news flash for you pal! Some black guyz are extremely well mannered and very darn cute! ;)
Pierce a black guys finger and peirce a white guys finger and then pierce a brown guys finger. Match the color of the blood that each of them dispense. I'm thinking its gonna be red in all three. So how exactly are they all different in their humanity?
Spooki dam man i agree with ya like 101% u go ....what ever u r ...i mean girl or a guy...but everyone is the equal...and if i knew a black dude who was most of everything i was looking for ...dammm i'd be out with him NOW!hehehe hey don't take me as a ..hmm hmm that was an example i think i over did it ....ok better shut up now....chill till then! ~.Emaan.~
DONT TAKE IS AS MY COMMENT ITS WHAT I HEARD from a UK living 21 years old lady. and i will be open!!! and which you guys are trying to say but cant get it out your throats!!!
They are interested in SEX with black guys because THEY believe that black guys have long penises. I dont know why im writing this but someones gota clear it out!!!
SUre you are angry hey its the truth and it hurts see yaaaaaaa
Hey guys... lets stop acting like racist and stop talking about this white, black, paki and indian crap. We all are muslims and believe in same God and to his eyes everyone is equal, no matter from what race he is,or what color he has. There are somethings some people like and other people don't, thats nature, who are we to judge, why ones likes it and we don't.
Ok..so why is it that desi girls can do better than a black guy???
if she were to be with a gora is that better?
or even Better than a desi even????
I really am amazed at how much we still are stuck on color and ethnicity...and impression that gives in our decsions about mates.
IMO
any desi marrying out is not doing something that
a. someone else has not done.
b. Is not making some big score
c. Is not better/worse than me.
so..it isn't that big of a deal. I've heard that many desi girls prefer NON desi guys because they are much more considerate than desi guys.
I was told this is because the non-desi guy is so gratefull he got a chance with you..and knows he really has a slim one..he'll make sure he doesn't mess up..whilde desi guys see the girls as ghar ke murghi who is looking to tie him up with that marriage thing....so they take the girls for granted.
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Members...Please remember the rules of gupshup when posting..don't let it get out of hand.
BUt..I'm going to let this thread go on..because where else can we talk about this sort of things so openly..well sort of openly. :)
kashmirigirl - a quite in-depth view
on the desi thinking system.
as for JAAWAN!!!!! (i can KiLL you for saying that! Howeva..the easy going sort of person i am)::::
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm................
think what chu want boy.
[This message has been edited by kohal (edited November 27, 1999).]
I've heard that many desi girls prefer NON desi guys because they are much more considerate than desi guys.
A Pakistani girl I knew once said her Indian friend told her the same thing. (This is not a Pak/India flame, it is the truth so nobody think I'm trying to score points here). She was seeing a white guy coz she said that Desi men treat you bad.
Anyway I kind of resent these comments. Only a small percentage of desi guys actually marry non-desi girls, so I think that we value desi girls pretty highly. And I can tell you gori women are pretty keen on desi guys too so maybe the non-desi fellas aren't all they're cracked up to be?
I don't think it is about colour. It is about values and respect. Us desi guys have to go through a lot of BS about how we are repressing the women and then we get the non-desi guys coming sniffing around because their own women are out throwing their underpants at The Dreamboys.
As for the black guys thing, well Jaawan said it straight but I think black people themselves are very insecure about their poor family values, broken homes (I'm generalising) and lack of responsible fathers. I think this is only the case with Afro-Americans. Genuine Africans are far better.
Your Ghar ka Murgha
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isn't the whole statement Ghar ka murgha daal baraber?
I love daal and chicken. ;)
Remember...I said I heard...not that is what I think.... :)
I don't think desi guys are ghar ke murghi at all.....actually prefer them.
Not that I don't find Damion Wayne or Antonio sabato Jr. hot....but I think marriages work better with similar morals, values and cultures. Plus I've spent way too much of my life, living in a society with people whom I have had to explain my religion, culture and lifestyle to....I don't want to do that with the most important person in my life.
Anyways…desi men rock…
ps Interesting points about desi men dealing with alot of Bs about the treatment of their women. In addition, gori women like desi men because they have strong family values and are not the love them and leave them types...especially after kids.
[This message has been edited by kashmirigirl (edited November 28, 1999).]
Hinna jee you are the one pointing fingers here not me....look at what kohal jee wrote...did you read it " oh yeah, and include the arab guys in that category as well!" < she wrote> Now tell me what message do you get...some girls told me who are living in UK that black guys such and such bla bla bla you know...sub ko wohee milta hia jo kismat mian likha hia i guess if black is in your kismat than you will get a black and...oey mundyaaa its been over 8 years man now you remember, i bet you were still paddling your boat back there..hahaahahahhaah right.
Jaawan
Till next time*K_I_S_S*
[This message has been edited by Jaawan (edited November 28, 1999).]